Do you know why the windshield of a car so big and so small in the rear view mirror? Because we are not as important PAST FUTURE us. Future exhibits and moving forward.
Friendship is like a BOOK. It only takes a few seconds to burn, but take years to write.
Everything in life is temporary. When running smoothly, enjoy it, all it will not last forever. If walking is not correct, do not worry, it does not last forever, too.
Old friends are gold. New Friends are Diamonds. If you get a diamond, do not forget about gold. Because to be able to put a diamond, you always need a stand which is made of Gold.
Friendship is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship. It's not about how much we care about in the beginning but how much we care about to end.
Likewise with love is not about how much love we have in the beginning but how much love we wake up to the end.
We came into this world to love by not seeking the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
The most blessed people should not have all the best, they just do the best with what they already have.
There are a few lost destiny. There are several meetings that will not end forever. Loving someone does not necessarily to have, but have someone you must have loved her well
Prayer is not like "Proposed Wheel" that you wear when you're in trouble, but prayer is the "Steering Wheel" that guide you on the right path.
Often when we lose hope and think that this is the end of it all, God smiles from up there and say, "Relax, dear, this is just a bend, not a dead end!"
When GOD solve your problem, you have confidence in his abilities;
When the Lord does not solve your problems, He has faith in your abilities.
When you pray for others, listening and God bless them. And, sometimes, when you secure and happy life, remember that someone has prayed for you.
Concerns will not eliminate DIFFICULTY tomorrow, but omit the peace today.
Have a fruitful trip!
Sabtu, 21 Agustus 2010
My Friends is My Life... My Wine... My Diamond... My Glass
My Friends is My Life... My Wine... My Diamond... My Glass
(1)
True friends are those,
Who care without hesitation,
Who remember without limitation,
Who forgive without explanation &
Who trust without communication.
(2)
Think of me and keep in mind
A faithful friend is hard to find
But if you find one equal and true
Never leave him for the new
(3)
Don't make friends before understanding
Don't break a friendship after misunderstanding
A good friendship does not dependon how good understanding we have.
But it depends on how betterwe avoid Misunderstandings.
(4)
Make a heart which never breaks,
make a smile which never hurts,
make a touch which never pains,
make a friendship which never ends
(5)
Friendship is not about finding
the right person but,
Creating the right relation.
It's not how much we care
in the beginning but how much
we care till the end.
(6)
Making a million friends is not an achievement,
The achievement is to make
"A" friend who will stand by you
when a million are against you....!
(7)
Its not an achievement to
make 1000's friends in a year,
but an achievement is when
you make a friend for 1000's years.
(8)
The hardest part ofmissing friends
is not their absence,
it's when you think
of all those good times
and ask yourself,
'will those moments ever
happen again?'
(9)
Some friends forget
some move away
some keep silent
some just change
but I'm not 1 of them.
I'm here just 4 two moments..
Now & 4ever...!!:)
(10)
Whenever u want
to know how rich u r?
Don't count your money!
just drop a tear &
look around at the
number of hands that
reach out to wipe your tears
It's a true friendship
(11)
The Test Of Friendship
Doesn't Comes When U R 2gether.
It Comes When U Part Ways &
U Realize That Despite The Distance,
The Friendship Is Still There...
(12)
Sometimes in life we think
we don't need anyone,
But sometimes we don't have
anyone when we need someone.
So, hold good peoples around
&
never let your friends go!
(13)
Colors may fade,
the sun may not shine,
the moon may not be bright,
heartbeats may stop,
lives may pass but our friendship,
I'll treasure 'till the day my heart stops.
(14)
A friend who is far away
is sometimes much nearer
than one who is at hand.
Is not the mountain farmore awe-inspiring
and more clearly visibleto one passing
through the valley
than to those who inhabit the mountain?
(15)
Truly great friends are hard to find,
difficult to leave,
and impossible to forget
(16)
True friends can see the hurtin your eyes
when everyone else is fooledby your smile
(17)
A stranger stabs you in the front;
a friend stabs you in the back;
a boyfriend stabs you in the heart,
but best friends only poke each other with straws.
(18)
Should I smile because we are friends?
Or cry because we'll never be anything more?
(19)
If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.
If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.
If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.
If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile...
But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.
(20)
A friend is someone
who knows the song in your heart
and can sing it back to you
when you have forgotten the words.
(21)
Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say.
Best friends listen to what you don't say
(22)
Friendship is like standing on wet cement.
The longer you stay,
the harder it's to leave,
and you can never go without leaving your footprints behind.
(23)
A friend is someone who understand your past,
believes in your future,
and accepts you today just the way you are.
(24)
True friendship is like sound health;
the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.
(25)
I find friendship to be like wine,
raw when new,
ripened with age,
the true old man's milk and restorative cordial.
(26)
Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity,
as the waterthat flows from the spring cannot conceal in winter.
(27)
Best friends are like diamonds,
precious and rare
False friends are like leaves,
found everywhere.
(28)
Yesterday brought the beginning,
tomorrow brings the end,
but somewhere in the middle we've become best of friends.
(29)
Friends are like pillars on your porch.
Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you.
(30)
A world without a friend,
what would it be?
It would be like a world without water,
something you need.
Friends are like glass,
once broken,
they are hard to fix.
Keep your friends,
as you would keep your water."
(31)
Friend derives from a word meaning "free."
A friend is someone who allows us the space and freedom to be.
(1)
True friends are those,
Who care without hesitation,
Who remember without limitation,
Who forgive without explanation &
Who trust without communication.
(2)
Think of me and keep in mind
A faithful friend is hard to find
But if you find one equal and true
Never leave him for the new
(3)
Don't make friends before understanding
Don't break a friendship after misunderstanding
A good friendship does not dependon how good understanding we have.
But it depends on how betterwe avoid Misunderstandings.
(4)
Make a heart which never breaks,
make a smile which never hurts,
make a touch which never pains,
make a friendship which never ends
(5)
Friendship is not about finding
the right person but,
Creating the right relation.
It's not how much we care
in the beginning but how much
we care till the end.
(6)
Making a million friends is not an achievement,
The achievement is to make
"A" friend who will stand by you
when a million are against you....!
(7)
Its not an achievement to
make 1000's friends in a year,
but an achievement is when
you make a friend for 1000's years.
(8)
The hardest part ofmissing friends
is not their absence,
it's when you think
of all those good times
and ask yourself,
'will those moments ever
happen again?'
(9)
Some friends forget
some move away
some keep silent
some just change
but I'm not 1 of them.
I'm here just 4 two moments..
Now & 4ever...!!:)
(10)
Whenever u want
to know how rich u r?
Don't count your money!
just drop a tear &
look around at the
number of hands that
reach out to wipe your tears
It's a true friendship
(11)
The Test Of Friendship
Doesn't Comes When U R 2gether.
It Comes When U Part Ways &
U Realize That Despite The Distance,
The Friendship Is Still There...
(12)
Sometimes in life we think
we don't need anyone,
But sometimes we don't have
anyone when we need someone.
So, hold good peoples around
&
never let your friends go!
(13)
Colors may fade,
the sun may not shine,
the moon may not be bright,
heartbeats may stop,
lives may pass but our friendship,
I'll treasure 'till the day my heart stops.
(14)
A friend who is far away
is sometimes much nearer
than one who is at hand.
Is not the mountain farmore awe-inspiring
and more clearly visibleto one passing
through the valley
than to those who inhabit the mountain?
(15)
Truly great friends are hard to find,
difficult to leave,
and impossible to forget
(16)
True friends can see the hurtin your eyes
when everyone else is fooledby your smile
(17)
A stranger stabs you in the front;
a friend stabs you in the back;
a boyfriend stabs you in the heart,
but best friends only poke each other with straws.
(18)
Should I smile because we are friends?
Or cry because we'll never be anything more?
(19)
If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.
If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.
If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.
If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile...
But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.
(20)
A friend is someone
who knows the song in your heart
and can sing it back to you
when you have forgotten the words.
(21)
Everyone hears what you say.
Friends listen to what you say.
Best friends listen to what you don't say
(22)
Friendship is like standing on wet cement.
The longer you stay,
the harder it's to leave,
and you can never go without leaving your footprints behind.
(23)
A friend is someone who understand your past,
believes in your future,
and accepts you today just the way you are.
(24)
True friendship is like sound health;
the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.
(25)
I find friendship to be like wine,
raw when new,
ripened with age,
the true old man's milk and restorative cordial.
(26)
Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity,
as the waterthat flows from the spring cannot conceal in winter.
(27)
Best friends are like diamonds,
precious and rare
False friends are like leaves,
found everywhere.
(28)
Yesterday brought the beginning,
tomorrow brings the end,
but somewhere in the middle we've become best of friends.
(29)
Friends are like pillars on your porch.
Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you.
(30)
A world without a friend,
what would it be?
It would be like a world without water,
something you need.
Friends are like glass,
once broken,
they are hard to fix.
Keep your friends,
as you would keep your water."
(31)
Friend derives from a word meaning "free."
A friend is someone who allows us the space and freedom to be.
Sand and Stone Carving
Sand and Stone carving
Once, there was a pair of wanderers who are traveling. They, are now crossing the vast desert. As long as the eye could see, there is only sand that stretched horizon. Tread-existing footprints behind them, forming a trail that was not broken. Meandering structure, looks like a curve line, which culminate in each step through which they pass. Occasionally dust the sand hit the body, and make them run to duck, to avoid the little storm. Suddenly, there was a big storm coming. Its very strong gusts, making their bodies swaying, and dizziness. The strong blows that immediately makes the ends of their garments fluttering, and push their bodies toward the rear. Fortunately, they were holding, and can withstand the storm. However, there are other disasters that may befall them. Open their drinking supplies, and carried by strong winds earlier. 'Ah ... we will die of thirst here, 'said one traveler.
Tired survive after the storm, they sat stunned, deplores the loss of their drinking supplies. Someone from them, seemed to write something on the sand with his fingertips. 'We are sad. We lost our lunch drinks in this place. "Nomad others looked confused, but still clean equipment. The storm is completely over, and both went on the trip. After a long down the field, they see an oasis in the distance. 'We survived, said a traveler,' look, there's water there. 'They're half-ran toward the water. Fortunately, it was not a mirage. Behold, a small pond with plenty of water. Both were soon drinking their fill, and take a rest for the journey. While resting, wandering the same start writing something. He held the knife used to carve on a stone. 'We were happy. We can continue the journey to find this place. "
Feeling confused by the behavior his friend, another wanderer began to ask questions. 'Why are you writing now on a stone, while the earlier you wrote in the sand when we lose our drinking supplies?' Smiling at the question, the friend began to respond. 'When we got trouble, write it in sand. Let the wind will take him far away from the sincerity of memory. Let the record will disappear with the spread of sand sincerity. Let it evaporate and disappear. '' But, remember, when we get happiness, glory chisel it in stone, in order to keep remembering and make us happy. Nock the fun memories in hard stone, so that nothing can erase. Leave a note of happiness it is still there. Let it all saved. "
Both were smiling again. Have sufficient supplies of drinks, and they went back to continue their journey.
Friends, sometimes indeed, we see the sadness and happiness. At times, both are present alternately, each other's way of life changed the coloring of this length. Both, I believe, gives us a kind of memory that often make us remembered. However, is there anything we want to be like wandering about? Will we be a forgiving person, able to write every grief in the sand, so the wind could take him away sincerity?
Will we become a strong, able to release any trouble with the wind flying sincerity?
And friends, try also to always remember every kindness and happiness that we have. Keep all that in the robustness of our hearts, so that nobody can delete anything. Nick all the memories of happiness, sadness that there was no wind that is able to eliminate it.
I am sure, the winds of happiness and sincerity, will be able to replace our grief article on sand distress. Meanwhile, sculpture our happiness, will always be remembered and make us optimistic in the long live this life.
Once, there was a pair of wanderers who are traveling. They, are now crossing the vast desert. As long as the eye could see, there is only sand that stretched horizon. Tread-existing footprints behind them, forming a trail that was not broken. Meandering structure, looks like a curve line, which culminate in each step through which they pass. Occasionally dust the sand hit the body, and make them run to duck, to avoid the little storm. Suddenly, there was a big storm coming. Its very strong gusts, making their bodies swaying, and dizziness. The strong blows that immediately makes the ends of their garments fluttering, and push their bodies toward the rear. Fortunately, they were holding, and can withstand the storm. However, there are other disasters that may befall them. Open their drinking supplies, and carried by strong winds earlier. 'Ah ... we will die of thirst here, 'said one traveler.
Tired survive after the storm, they sat stunned, deplores the loss of their drinking supplies. Someone from them, seemed to write something on the sand with his fingertips. 'We are sad. We lost our lunch drinks in this place. "Nomad others looked confused, but still clean equipment. The storm is completely over, and both went on the trip. After a long down the field, they see an oasis in the distance. 'We survived, said a traveler,' look, there's water there. 'They're half-ran toward the water. Fortunately, it was not a mirage. Behold, a small pond with plenty of water. Both were soon drinking their fill, and take a rest for the journey. While resting, wandering the same start writing something. He held the knife used to carve on a stone. 'We were happy. We can continue the journey to find this place. "
Feeling confused by the behavior his friend, another wanderer began to ask questions. 'Why are you writing now on a stone, while the earlier you wrote in the sand when we lose our drinking supplies?' Smiling at the question, the friend began to respond. 'When we got trouble, write it in sand. Let the wind will take him far away from the sincerity of memory. Let the record will disappear with the spread of sand sincerity. Let it evaporate and disappear. '' But, remember, when we get happiness, glory chisel it in stone, in order to keep remembering and make us happy. Nock the fun memories in hard stone, so that nothing can erase. Leave a note of happiness it is still there. Let it all saved. "
Both were smiling again. Have sufficient supplies of drinks, and they went back to continue their journey.
Friends, sometimes indeed, we see the sadness and happiness. At times, both are present alternately, each other's way of life changed the coloring of this length. Both, I believe, gives us a kind of memory that often make us remembered. However, is there anything we want to be like wandering about? Will we be a forgiving person, able to write every grief in the sand, so the wind could take him away sincerity?
Will we become a strong, able to release any trouble with the wind flying sincerity?
And friends, try also to always remember every kindness and happiness that we have. Keep all that in the robustness of our hearts, so that nobody can delete anything. Nick all the memories of happiness, sadness that there was no wind that is able to eliminate it.
I am sure, the winds of happiness and sincerity, will be able to replace our grief article on sand distress. Meanwhile, sculpture our happiness, will always be remembered and make us optimistic in the long live this life.
Love need Sacrifice
Love need Sacrifice
We are born with two eyes in front of our faces, because we should not always look back. But look at all of that in the future, look at our future.
We are born with two ears on the right and the left, so we can listen to everything from TWO SIDES, to be able to gather praise and criticism and to select what is right and wrong.
Because what we hear is not necessarily a truth.
We are born with two eyes, two EAR but we just were given a fruit MOUTH.
That means, we should have more HEAR, SEE two times more than SPEAK.
Be careful with what we say. Because of the painful remarks very difficult to be withdrawn.
"It takes a lifetime to build a Friendship process, but it only takes a Few words to destroy it"
We are born with only one heart deep inside our ribs. Reminds us of the award and administration are expected to come from love most in our hearts.
Learning to love and enjoy how we loved but never ever expect others to love us like we love him.
Give love without asking for a reply and we will find the meaning of love is far more beautiful. Genuine love is always necessary sacrifice.
Being Deeply loved by Someone gives you strength, while loving Someone Deeply gives you courage.
Since the sage is in need of nothing, he gives his attention to Those Who Are in need. He is compassionate to the caring and uncaring alike.
Lao-Tzu
We are born with two eyes in front of our faces, because we should not always look back. But look at all of that in the future, look at our future.
We are born with two ears on the right and the left, so we can listen to everything from TWO SIDES, to be able to gather praise and criticism and to select what is right and wrong.
Because what we hear is not necessarily a truth.
We are born with two eyes, two EAR but we just were given a fruit MOUTH.
That means, we should have more HEAR, SEE two times more than SPEAK.
Be careful with what we say. Because of the painful remarks very difficult to be withdrawn.
"It takes a lifetime to build a Friendship process, but it only takes a Few words to destroy it"
We are born with only one heart deep inside our ribs. Reminds us of the award and administration are expected to come from love most in our hearts.
Learning to love and enjoy how we loved but never ever expect others to love us like we love him.
Give love without asking for a reply and we will find the meaning of love is far more beautiful. Genuine love is always necessary sacrifice.
Being Deeply loved by Someone gives you strength, while loving Someone Deeply gives you courage.
Since the sage is in need of nothing, he gives his attention to Those Who Are in need. He is compassionate to the caring and uncaring alike.
Lao-Tzu
Friends and Love
In the days of ancient China there was a farmer had a neighbor who works as a hunter and has a ferocious dogs and poorly trained. The dogs often jump the fence and chasing the sheep farmers. The farmer asked his neighbors to keep dogs, but she would not care. One day the dogs jumped the fence and attacked a goat so badly injured.
The farmer was impatient, and decided to go to town to consult on a judge. The judge listened to the story that farmers carefully and said, "I could punish poachers and ordered him to chaining and confining her dogs. But you will lose a friend and gain an enemy. Which do you want, friend or foe to be your neighbor? "The farmer replied that he preferred to have a friend.
"Fine, I'll offer you a solution where you have to keep your sheep in order to remain safe and this will make your neighbors remain as friends." Hearing the judges pack solution, the farmer agreed.
When I got home, the farmer judges pack immediately implement solutions. He took three and gave it his best sheep to the neighbor's three children, which he accepted with joy and began playing with the sheep. To keep the new toy his son, the hunter's dog locked pursuer. Since then the dogs were never disturb the sheep farmer.
In addition to his grateful to the generosity of farmers to their children, hunters often hunted to farmers goal should divide. In return the farmers send homemade lamb and cheese. In a short time neighbors became good friends.
Ancient China An expression that says, "How Best to defeat and influence people is by virtue and compassion.".
Friendship is not about finding the right person but, Creating the right relations. It's not how much the We Care in the beginning but how much We Care till the end.
Love is not selfish, love is life for others. Thus, self-sacrifice is always a requirement for a genuine expression of love and perfect. Love who always need to sacrifice valuable.
If We Sacrifice this body for the world's benefit, then come to "All Things That person will from WHO loves as he loves Himself Others.
Lao-Tzu
The farmer was impatient, and decided to go to town to consult on a judge. The judge listened to the story that farmers carefully and said, "I could punish poachers and ordered him to chaining and confining her dogs. But you will lose a friend and gain an enemy. Which do you want, friend or foe to be your neighbor? "The farmer replied that he preferred to have a friend.
"Fine, I'll offer you a solution where you have to keep your sheep in order to remain safe and this will make your neighbors remain as friends." Hearing the judges pack solution, the farmer agreed.
When I got home, the farmer judges pack immediately implement solutions. He took three and gave it his best sheep to the neighbor's three children, which he accepted with joy and began playing with the sheep. To keep the new toy his son, the hunter's dog locked pursuer. Since then the dogs were never disturb the sheep farmer.
In addition to his grateful to the generosity of farmers to their children, hunters often hunted to farmers goal should divide. In return the farmers send homemade lamb and cheese. In a short time neighbors became good friends.
Ancient China An expression that says, "How Best to defeat and influence people is by virtue and compassion.".
Friendship is not about finding the right person but, Creating the right relations. It's not how much the We Care in the beginning but how much We Care till the end.
Love is not selfish, love is life for others. Thus, self-sacrifice is always a requirement for a genuine expression of love and perfect. Love who always need to sacrifice valuable.
If We Sacrifice this body for the world's benefit, then come to "All Things That person will from WHO loves as he loves Himself Others.
Lao-Tzu
Managing Change Start with Small Steps!
Managing Change Start with Small Steps!
Managing change: Nothing start with giant leap, everything starts with small steps. All big changes in the world begin with small steps.
When we are just toddlers, we learn to take small steps and stumble before we could walk and run, and we learn ABC before we could spell the whole words and pronounce it correctly. So what’s the different with the rest of the learning, why are we rushing through giant steps when we are stumbling in our small steps?" It is better to take many small steps in the right direction than to make a great leap forward only to stumble backward." ~ Chinese proverbs.
Therefore, my friends:
1) Begin the journey with small steps. Take the small steps and watch them grow.
2) A journey of a thousand miles begins with one small step. If you never start, you never move from the very spot you are standing now, and yes, you are moving nowhere! And you never arrived either!
3) Have you heard of people been complaining on and on about their misery and their life, but years after years, you see they are still living in the same situations, same complain. And you wonder why? Why haven’t they make the changes if life is so misery for them to sustain in the circumstances?
4) There are couples of reasons why people are not taking steps even when they are just small steps to begin with:
* Making changes and managing changes are hard.
* Taking the first step is always the most painful and fearful. Reaching out to the unknown world, moving out from our comfort zone and fear of rejection paralyzing us from taking steps forward!
* Fear of failure, we gives ourselves reasons not to move forward, because we fear of failure and fear to admit that we are incapable. It’s better to blame the fact and left it to unknown.
* You see the "giant" is too big to conquer, and you give up even before you tried. No point of trying when you know you’re bound to be failed. It’s easier to live in "hope" than to go and conquer the unknown.
* Some just need to live in the "pain", and continues to complain about the misery life has cruelly presented them with, and surprisingly, that’s gives them a motive to move on with life.
5) Are those the excuses you’ve been giving yourself and stopping you from stepping forward and take change and managing changes in your life? Take heart my friend, and take the leap of faith, there is a wonderful world of unknown out there.
Begin the journey to undercover the mystery of life, and yes, you’ll get hurt, but the gifts of life is just out there within your reach if only you could just step down from your chair and take the steps. Just a small step, just put your right/left leg out and takes the steps. Remember, when you are young, you parents standing not far from you with their hands outstretch waiting for you to reach them…. The same with life!!
6) Even big CEO and business starts with the small steps:
* Steve Jobs, the CEO of Apple Inc started his business with his peers in his parents’ living room back then in 1976. The company has stumbles a few obstacles before it break through with the innovation of ipod and iphone in current years.
* Bill Gates, one of the richest man in the world and the founder of Microsoft Corp started his career from the humble beginning in a basement office, Gates worked on the company's products creating software such as MS-DOS and Microsoft Word. In 1985, he introduced Microsoft Windows and, a few months later, he took Microsoft Corp. public on the NASDAQ stock exchange for seven cents US per share. The offering raised $45 million US for the company, making Gates a millionaire. Today, Microsoft's share price is around $35 US and the company is worth $374.9 billion US. Gates is a billionaire and his company sees more than $54 billion US in revenues annually.
* The same goes to Micheal Dell and many other top CEOs in the world today.
Therefore friends, don’t hesitate, just take the first step today, small steps leads to thousand miles, and it’s all begin with a small step forward. Remember, no changes was made with giant leap, everyone, even the most successful person today, start somewhere with a small steps.
Managing changes forward steps Keep moving in the right direction (this is called goal setting) and keep moving, you will see progress day after day. Take the step, and you can look behind and see how much progress you’ve made. Remember the first step to managing change is to have the courage to take the first step!!
A toddler keeps looking backward when he start learning to walk, and when he looks back and notice how far he has move from the 1st stop, he will greatly encouraged and keep moving. You will be greatly surprised.
The same goes to us, moving ahead keeps us encouraged!! Success is not measured by where we going, but how far we have gone from the 1st spot we’ve standing.
Even a habit could be changed if you continuously making an obvious and conscious effort to change it. It’s believed that a new habit will be developed after 21 days.
So if you have something in your mind today, don’t think too far or too much, just take the steps and follow the flow, what could worst happen – it could be successful or it could be failing, or it could lead to some other opportunities, or it could make you meet new friends, experiencing new skills and faces new challenges or go to places that you never dream you will be going or doing something that you never dream you’ll doing.
Worst come to worst, at least you tried and you’ve learned from the experience. No one can take away the experience you have, and you will carry that through your life. So go ahead my friends, first take the steps, then we talk about next steps!!
Quote of the day:
"The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but on significance - and then even the small steps and little victories along your path with take on greater meaning." ~Oprah Winfrey
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step" ~ Lao Tzu
Managing change: Nothing start with giant leap, everything starts with small steps. All big changes in the world begin with small steps.
When we are just toddlers, we learn to take small steps and stumble before we could walk and run, and we learn ABC before we could spell the whole words and pronounce it correctly. So what’s the different with the rest of the learning, why are we rushing through giant steps when we are stumbling in our small steps?" It is better to take many small steps in the right direction than to make a great leap forward only to stumble backward." ~ Chinese proverbs.
Therefore, my friends:
1) Begin the journey with small steps. Take the small steps and watch them grow.
2) A journey of a thousand miles begins with one small step. If you never start, you never move from the very spot you are standing now, and yes, you are moving nowhere! And you never arrived either!
3) Have you heard of people been complaining on and on about their misery and their life, but years after years, you see they are still living in the same situations, same complain. And you wonder why? Why haven’t they make the changes if life is so misery for them to sustain in the circumstances?
4) There are couples of reasons why people are not taking steps even when they are just small steps to begin with:
* Making changes and managing changes are hard.
* Taking the first step is always the most painful and fearful. Reaching out to the unknown world, moving out from our comfort zone and fear of rejection paralyzing us from taking steps forward!
* Fear of failure, we gives ourselves reasons not to move forward, because we fear of failure and fear to admit that we are incapable. It’s better to blame the fact and left it to unknown.
* You see the "giant" is too big to conquer, and you give up even before you tried. No point of trying when you know you’re bound to be failed. It’s easier to live in "hope" than to go and conquer the unknown.
* Some just need to live in the "pain", and continues to complain about the misery life has cruelly presented them with, and surprisingly, that’s gives them a motive to move on with life.
5) Are those the excuses you’ve been giving yourself and stopping you from stepping forward and take change and managing changes in your life? Take heart my friend, and take the leap of faith, there is a wonderful world of unknown out there.
Begin the journey to undercover the mystery of life, and yes, you’ll get hurt, but the gifts of life is just out there within your reach if only you could just step down from your chair and take the steps. Just a small step, just put your right/left leg out and takes the steps. Remember, when you are young, you parents standing not far from you with their hands outstretch waiting for you to reach them…. The same with life!!
6) Even big CEO and business starts with the small steps:
* Steve Jobs, the CEO of Apple Inc started his business with his peers in his parents’ living room back then in 1976. The company has stumbles a few obstacles before it break through with the innovation of ipod and iphone in current years.
* Bill Gates, one of the richest man in the world and the founder of Microsoft Corp started his career from the humble beginning in a basement office, Gates worked on the company's products creating software such as MS-DOS and Microsoft Word. In 1985, he introduced Microsoft Windows and, a few months later, he took Microsoft Corp. public on the NASDAQ stock exchange for seven cents US per share. The offering raised $45 million US for the company, making Gates a millionaire. Today, Microsoft's share price is around $35 US and the company is worth $374.9 billion US. Gates is a billionaire and his company sees more than $54 billion US in revenues annually.
* The same goes to Micheal Dell and many other top CEOs in the world today.
Therefore friends, don’t hesitate, just take the first step today, small steps leads to thousand miles, and it’s all begin with a small step forward. Remember, no changes was made with giant leap, everyone, even the most successful person today, start somewhere with a small steps.
Managing changes forward steps Keep moving in the right direction (this is called goal setting) and keep moving, you will see progress day after day. Take the step, and you can look behind and see how much progress you’ve made. Remember the first step to managing change is to have the courage to take the first step!!
A toddler keeps looking backward when he start learning to walk, and when he looks back and notice how far he has move from the 1st stop, he will greatly encouraged and keep moving. You will be greatly surprised.
The same goes to us, moving ahead keeps us encouraged!! Success is not measured by where we going, but how far we have gone from the 1st spot we’ve standing.
Even a habit could be changed if you continuously making an obvious and conscious effort to change it. It’s believed that a new habit will be developed after 21 days.
So if you have something in your mind today, don’t think too far or too much, just take the steps and follow the flow, what could worst happen – it could be successful or it could be failing, or it could lead to some other opportunities, or it could make you meet new friends, experiencing new skills and faces new challenges or go to places that you never dream you will be going or doing something that you never dream you’ll doing.
Worst come to worst, at least you tried and you’ve learned from the experience. No one can take away the experience you have, and you will carry that through your life. So go ahead my friends, first take the steps, then we talk about next steps!!
Quote of the day:
"The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but on significance - and then even the small steps and little victories along your path with take on greater meaning." ~Oprah Winfrey
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step" ~ Lao Tzu
8 Life Holder
1. Mother Theresa:
- ► If you're just trying to judge a person, then you will never be able to love them
- ► If we can not love the people that we can see, How can we love God that is not visible?
2. Iwami Vivekananda
- ► If you do not see any issues, then you will never believe that you are on the wrong path
3. Adolf Hitler
- ► If you win, no comment ...
- ► Pun, if you lose, do not be unreasonable ...
4. Bennie Blair
- ► Winning, did not mean to be "most".
But ...
Win, is because you are trying to be better than ever ...
5. William Shakespeare
- ► Three key to success:
a. Know more than others
b. Try harder than others.
c. Expecting less from others.
6. Charles
- ► Do not ever betray the four things in your life:
a. Trust / mandate
b. Promise
c. Relationship
d. Liver / feelings
Because, when they betrayed .. only pain was the one who left ...
7. Leo Tolstoy
- ► All people think about changing the world .. But no one thinks to change themselves ...
8. Einstein
- ► If someone feels that they never make mistakes during his lifetime, then in fact they never try new things in his life
- ► If you're just trying to judge a person, then you will never be able to love them
- ► If we can not love the people that we can see, How can we love God that is not visible?
2. Iwami Vivekananda
- ► If you do not see any issues, then you will never believe that you are on the wrong path
3. Adolf Hitler
- ► If you win, no comment ...
- ► Pun, if you lose, do not be unreasonable ...
4. Bennie Blair
- ► Winning, did not mean to be "most".
But ...
Win, is because you are trying to be better than ever ...
5. William Shakespeare
- ► Three key to success:
a. Know more than others
b. Try harder than others.
c. Expecting less from others.
6. Charles
- ► Do not ever betray the four things in your life:
a. Trust / mandate
b. Promise
c. Relationship
d. Liver / feelings
Because, when they betrayed .. only pain was the one who left ...
7. Leo Tolstoy
- ► All people think about changing the world .. But no one thinks to change themselves ...
8. Einstein
- ► If someone feels that they never make mistakes during his lifetime, then in fact they never try new things in his life
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