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Sabtu, 21 Agustus 2010

Traveling in the World

Do you know why the windshield of a car so big and so small in the rear view mirror? Because we are not as important PAST FUTURE us. Future exhibits and moving forward.

Friendship is like a BOOK. It only takes a few seconds to burn, but take years to write.

Everything in life is temporary. When running smoothly, enjoy it, all it will not last forever. If walking is not correct, do not worry, it does not last forever, too.

Old friends are gold. New Friends are Diamonds. If you get a diamond, do not forget about gold. Because to be able to put a diamond, you always need a stand which is made of Gold.

Friendship is not about finding the right person but creating the right relationship. It's not about how much we care about in the beginning but how much we care about to end.

Likewise with love is not about how much love we have in the beginning but how much love we wake up to the end.

We came into this world to love by not seeking the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

The most blessed people should not have all the best, they just do the best with what they already have.

There are a few lost destiny. There are several meetings that will not end forever. Loving someone does not necessarily to have, but have someone you must have loved her well

Prayer is not like "Proposed Wheel" that you wear when you're in trouble, but prayer is the "Steering Wheel" that guide you on the right path.

Often when we lose hope and think that this is the end of it all, God smiles from up there and say, "Relax, dear, this is just a bend, not a dead end!"

When GOD solve your problem, you have confidence in his abilities;

When the Lord does not solve your problems, He has faith in your abilities.

When you pray for others, listening and God bless them. And, sometimes, when you secure and happy life, remember that someone has prayed for you.

Concerns will not eliminate DIFFICULTY tomorrow, but omit the peace today.

Have a fruitful trip!

My Friends is My Life... My Wine... My Diamond... My Glass

My Friends is My Life... My Wine... My Diamond... My Glass



(1)

True friends are those,

Who care without hesitation,

Who remember without limitation,

Who forgive without explanation &

Who trust without communication.



(2)

Think of me and keep in mind

A faithful friend is hard to find

But if you find one equal and true

Never leave him for the new



(3)

Don't make friends before understanding

Don't break a friendship after misunderstanding

A good friendship does not dependon how good understanding we have.

But it depends on how betterwe avoid Misunderstandings.



(4)

Make a heart which never breaks,

make a smile which never hurts,

make a touch which never pains,

make a friendship which never ends



(5)

Friendship is not about finding

the right person but,

Creating the right relation.

It's not how much we care

in the beginning but how much

we care till the end.



(6)

Making a million friends is not an achievement,

The achievement is to make

"A" friend who will stand by you

when a million are against you....!



(7)

Its not an achievement to

make 1000's friends in a year,

but an achievement is when

you make a friend for 1000's years.



(8)

The hardest part ofmissing friends

is not their absence,

it's when you think

of all those good times

and ask yourself,

'will those moments ever

happen again?'



(9)

Some friends forget

some move away

some keep silent

some just change

but I'm not 1 of them.

I'm here just 4 two moments..

Now & 4ever...!!:)



(10)

Whenever u want

to know how rich u r?

Don't count your money!

just drop a tear &

look around at the

number of hands that

reach out to wipe your tears

It's a true friendship



(11)

The Test Of Friendship

Doesn't Comes When U R 2gether.

It Comes When U Part Ways &

U Realize That Despite The Distance,

The Friendship Is Still There...



(12)

Sometimes in life we think

we don't need anyone,

But sometimes we don't have

anyone when we need someone.

So, hold good peoples around

&

never let your friends go!



(13)

Colors may fade,

the sun may not shine,

the moon may not be bright,

heartbeats may stop,

lives may pass but our friendship,

I'll treasure 'till the day my heart stops.



(14)

A friend who is far away

is sometimes much nearer

than one who is at hand.

Is not the mountain farmore awe-inspiring

and more clearly visibleto one passing

through the valley

than to those who inhabit the mountain?



(15)

Truly great friends are hard to find,

difficult to leave,

and impossible to forget



(16)

True friends can see the hurtin your eyes

when everyone else is fooledby your smile



(17)

A stranger stabs you in the front;

a friend stabs you in the back;

a boyfriend stabs you in the heart,

but best friends only poke each other with straws.



(18)

Should I smile because we are friends?

Or cry because we'll never be anything more?



(19)

If you're alone, I'll be your shadow.

If you want to cry, I'll be your shoulder.

If you want a hug, I'll be your pillow.

If you need to be happy, I'll be your smile...

But anytime you need a friend, I'll just be me.



(20)

A friend is someone

who knows the song in your heart

and can sing it back to you

when you have forgotten the words.



(21)

Everyone hears what you say.

Friends listen to what you say.

Best friends listen to what you don't say



(22)

Friendship is like standing on wet cement.

The longer you stay,

the harder it's to leave,

and you can never go without leaving your footprints behind.



(23)

A friend is someone who understand your past,

believes in your future,

and accepts you today just the way you are.



(24)

True friendship is like sound health;

the value of it is seldom known until it be lost.



(25)

I find friendship to be like wine,

raw when new,

ripened with age,

the true old man's milk and restorative cordial.



(26)

Friendship that flows from the heart cannot be frozen by adversity,

as the waterthat flows from the spring cannot conceal in winter.



(27)

Best friends are like diamonds,

precious and rare

False friends are like leaves,

found everywhere.



(28)

Yesterday brought the beginning,

tomorrow brings the end,

but somewhere in the middle we've become best of friends.



(29)

Friends are like pillars on your porch.

Sometimes they hold you up and sometimes they lean on you.



(30)

A world without a friend,

what would it be?

It would be like a world without water,

something you need.

Friends are like glass,

once broken,

they are hard to fix.

Keep your friends,

as you would keep your water."



(31)

Friend derives from a word meaning "free."

A friend is someone who allows us the space and freedom to be.

Sand and Stone Carving

Sand and Stone carving

Once, there was a pair of wanderers who are traveling. They, are now crossing the vast desert. As long as the eye could see, there is only sand that stretched horizon. Tread-existing footprints behind them, forming a trail that was not broken. Meandering structure, looks like a curve line, which culminate in each step through which they pass. Occasionally dust the sand hit the body, and make them run to duck, to avoid the little storm. Suddenly, there was a big storm coming. Its very strong gusts, making their bodies swaying, and dizziness. The strong blows that immediately makes the ends of their garments fluttering, and push their bodies toward the rear. Fortunately, they were holding, and can withstand the storm. However, there are other disasters that may befall them. Open their drinking supplies, and carried by strong winds earlier. 'Ah ... we will die of thirst here, 'said one traveler.

Tired survive after the storm, they sat stunned, deplores the loss of their drinking supplies. Someone from them, seemed to write something on the sand with his fingertips. 'We are sad. We lost our lunch drinks in this place. "Nomad others looked confused, but still clean equipment. The storm is completely over, and both went on the trip. After a long down the field, they see an oasis in the distance. 'We survived, said a traveler,' look, there's water there. 'They're half-ran toward the water. Fortunately, it was not a mirage. Behold, a small pond with plenty of water. Both were soon drinking their fill, and take a rest for the journey. While resting, wandering the same start writing something. He held the knife used to carve on a stone. 'We were happy. We can continue the journey to find this place. "

Feeling confused by the behavior his friend, another wanderer began to ask questions. 'Why are you writing now on a stone, while the earlier you wrote in the sand when we lose our drinking supplies?' Smiling at the question, the friend began to respond. 'When we got trouble, write it in sand. Let the wind will take him far away from the sincerity of memory. Let the record will disappear with the spread of sand sincerity. Let it evaporate and disappear. '' But, remember, when we get happiness, glory chisel it in stone, in order to keep remembering and make us happy. Nock the fun memories in hard stone, so that nothing can erase. Leave a note of happiness it is still there. Let it all saved. "

Both were smiling again. Have sufficient supplies of drinks, and they went back to continue their journey.

Friends, sometimes indeed, we see the sadness and happiness. At times, both are present alternately, each other's way of life changed the coloring of this length. Both, I believe, gives us a kind of memory that often make us remembered. However, is there anything we want to be like wandering about? Will we be a forgiving person, able to write every grief in the sand, so the wind could take him away sincerity?

Will we become a strong, able to release any trouble with the wind flying sincerity?

And friends, try also to always remember every kindness and happiness that we have. Keep all that in the robustness of our hearts, so that nobody can delete anything. Nick all the memories of happiness, sadness that there was no wind that is able to eliminate it.

I am sure, the winds of happiness and sincerity, will be able to replace our grief article on sand distress. Meanwhile, sculpture our happiness, will always be remembered and make us optimistic in the long live this life.

Love need Sacrifice

Love need Sacrifice

We are born with two eyes in front of our faces, because we should not always look back. But look at all of that in the future, look at our future.

We are born with two ears on the right and the left, so we can listen to everything from TWO SIDES, to be able to gather praise and criticism and to select what is right and wrong.

Because what we hear is not necessarily a truth.

We are born with two eyes, two EAR but we just were given a fruit MOUTH.

That means, we should have more HEAR, SEE two times more than SPEAK.

Be careful with what we say. Because of the painful remarks very difficult to be withdrawn.


"It takes a lifetime to build a Friendship process, but it only takes a Few words to destroy it"

We are born with only one heart deep inside our ribs. Reminds us of the award and administration are expected to come from love most in our hearts.

Learning to love and enjoy how we loved but never ever expect others to love us like we love him.

Give love without asking for a reply and we will find the meaning of love is far more beautiful. Genuine love is always necessary sacrifice.

Being Deeply loved by Someone gives you strength, while loving Someone Deeply gives you courage.

Since the sage is in need of nothing, he gives his attention to Those Who Are in need. He is compassionate to the caring and uncaring alike.
Lao-Tzu

Friends and Love

In the days of ancient China there was a farmer had a neighbor who works as a hunter and has a ferocious dogs and poorly trained. The dogs often jump the fence and chasing the sheep farmers. The farmer asked his neighbors to keep dogs, but she would not care. One day the dogs jumped the fence and attacked a goat so badly injured.

The farmer was impatient, and decided to go to town to consult on a judge. The judge listened to the story that farmers carefully and said, "I could punish poachers and ordered him to chaining and confining her dogs. But you will lose a friend and gain an enemy. Which do you want, friend or foe to be your neighbor? "The farmer replied that he preferred to have a friend.

"Fine, I'll offer you a solution where you have to keep your sheep in order to remain safe and this will make your neighbors remain as friends." Hearing the judges pack solution, the farmer agreed.

When I got home, the farmer judges pack immediately implement solutions. He took three and gave it his best sheep to the neighbor's three children, which he accepted with joy and began playing with the sheep. To keep the new toy his son, the hunter's dog locked pursuer. Since then the dogs were never disturb the sheep farmer.

In addition to his grateful to the generosity of farmers to their children, hunters often hunted to farmers goal should divide. In return the farmers send homemade lamb and cheese. In a short time neighbors became good friends.

Ancient China An expression that says, "How Best to defeat and influence people is by virtue and compassion.".

Friendship is not about finding the right person but, Creating the right relations. It's not how much the We Care in the beginning but how much We Care till the end.

Love is not selfish, love is life for others. Thus, self-sacrifice is always a requirement for a genuine expression of love and perfect. Love who always need to sacrifice valuable.

If We Sacrifice this body for the world's benefit, then come to "All Things That person will from WHO loves as he loves Himself Others.

Lao-Tzu

Managing Change Start with Small Steps!

Managing Change Start with Small Steps!


Managing change: Nothing start with giant leap, everything starts with small steps. All big changes in the world begin with small steps.

When we are just toddlers, we learn to take small steps and stumble before we could walk and run, and we learn ABC before we could spell the whole words and pronounce it correctly. So what’s the different with the rest of the learning, why are we rushing through giant steps when we are stumbling in our small steps?" It is better to take many small steps in the right direction than to make a great leap forward only to stumble backward." ~ Chinese proverbs.

Therefore, my friends:
1) Begin the journey with small steps. Take the small steps and watch them grow.

2) A journey of a thousand miles begins with one small step. If you never start, you never move from the very spot you are standing now, and yes, you are moving nowhere! And you never arrived either!

3) Have you heard of people been complaining on and on about their misery and their life, but years after years, you see they are still living in the same situations, same complain. And you wonder why? Why haven’t they make the changes if life is so misery for them to sustain in the circumstances?

4) There are couples of reasons why people are not taking steps even when they are just small steps to begin with:

* Making changes and managing changes are hard.
* Taking the first step is always the most painful and fearful. Reaching out to the unknown world, moving out from our comfort zone and fear of rejection paralyzing us from taking steps forward!
* Fear of failure, we gives ourselves reasons not to move forward, because we fear of failure and fear to admit that we are incapable. It’s better to blame the fact and left it to unknown.
* You see the "giant" is too big to conquer, and you give up even before you tried. No point of trying when you know you’re bound to be failed. It’s easier to live in "hope" than to go and conquer the unknown.
* Some just need to live in the "pain", and continues to complain about the misery life has cruelly presented them with, and surprisingly, that’s gives them a motive to move on with life.

5) Are those the excuses you’ve been giving yourself and stopping you from stepping forward and take change and managing changes in your life? Take heart my friend, and take the leap of faith, there is a wonderful world of unknown out there.

Begin the journey to undercover the mystery of life, and yes, you’ll get hurt, but the gifts of life is just out there within your reach if only you could just step down from your chair and take the steps. Just a small step, just put your right/left leg out and takes the steps. Remember, when you are young, you parents standing not far from you with their hands outstretch waiting for you to reach them…. The same with life!!

6) Even big CEO and business starts with the small steps:

* Steve Jobs, the CEO of Apple Inc started his business with his peers in his parents’ living room back then in 1976. The company has stumbles a few obstacles before it break through with the innovation of ipod and iphone in current years.

* Bill Gates, one of the richest man in the world and the founder of Microsoft Corp started his career from the humble beginning in a basement office, Gates worked on the company's products creating software such as MS-DOS and Microsoft Word. In 1985, he introduced Microsoft Windows and, a few months later, he took Microsoft Corp. public on the NASDAQ stock exchange for seven cents US per share. The offering raised $45 million US for the company, making Gates a millionaire. Today, Microsoft's share price is around $35 US and the company is worth $374.9 billion US. Gates is a billionaire and his company sees more than $54 billion US in revenues annually.

* The same goes to Micheal Dell and many other top CEOs in the world today.

Therefore friends, don’t hesitate, just take the first step today, small steps leads to thousand miles, and it’s all begin with a small step forward. Remember, no changes was made with giant leap, everyone, even the most successful person today, start somewhere with a small steps.
Managing changes forward steps Keep moving in the right direction (this is called goal setting) and keep moving, you will see progress day after day. Take the step, and you can look behind and see how much progress you’ve made. Remember the first step to managing change is to have the courage to take the first step!!

A toddler keeps looking backward when he start learning to walk, and when he looks back and notice how far he has move from the 1st stop, he will greatly encouraged and keep moving. You will be greatly surprised.

The same goes to us, moving ahead keeps us encouraged!! Success is not measured by where we going, but how far we have gone from the 1st spot we’ve standing.

Even a habit could be changed if you continuously making an obvious and conscious effort to change it. It’s believed that a new habit will be developed after 21 days.

So if you have something in your mind today, don’t think too far or too much, just take the steps and follow the flow, what could worst happen – it could be successful or it could be failing, or it could lead to some other opportunities, or it could make you meet new friends, experiencing new skills and faces new challenges or go to places that you never dream you will be going or doing something that you never dream you’ll doing.

Worst come to worst, at least you tried and you’ve learned from the experience. No one can take away the experience you have, and you will carry that through your life. So go ahead my friends, first take the steps, then we talk about next steps!!
Quote of the day:

"The key to realizing a dream is to focus not on success but on significance - and then even the small steps and little victories along your path with take on greater meaning." ~Oprah Winfrey


"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step" ~ Lao Tzu

8 Life Holder

1. Mother Theresa:
- ► If you're just trying to judge a person, then you will never be able to love them
- ► If we can not love the people that we can see, How can we love God that is not visible?

2. Iwami Vivekananda
- ► If you do not see any issues, then you will never believe that you are on the wrong path

3. Adolf Hitler
- ► If you win, no comment ...
- ► Pun, if you lose, do not be unreasonable ...

4. Bennie Blair
- ► Winning, did not mean to be "most".
But ...
Win, is because you are trying to be better than ever ...

5. William Shakespeare
- ► Three key to success:
a. Know more than others
b. Try harder than others.
c. Expecting less from others.

6. Charles
- ► Do not ever betray the four things in your life:
a. Trust / mandate
b. Promise
c. Relationship
d. Liver / feelings
Because, when they betrayed .. only pain was the one who left ...

7. Leo Tolstoy
- ► All people think about changing the world .. But no one thinks to change themselves ...

8. Einstein
- ► If someone feels that they never make mistakes during his lifetime, then in fact they never try new things in his life

Appreciate Every Blessing

When we see the same blessing every day, we will not notice anymore.

When no longer pay attention, we stopped to appreciate.

When not appreciate, we stopped grateful.

When we are not grateful, we started to complain.

If today you are being hurt, be thankful because you know the pain and not hurt others.

If today you disappointed, give thanks because you do not make other people upset.

Whatever you experienced on this day, remain grateful that we learn to forgive.

When I do not understand God's purpose, I choose to believe.

As I was depressed by the disappointment, I chose to be grateful.

We plan a mess of my life, I chose to surrender.

We desperately it, I chose to stay forward.

I believe there will be Your sustenance every day. Your forgiveness and protection always with me.

Suppose Pencil with Life

Suppose Pencil with Life


A grandmother who was writing a letter advising her grandson:
"You hope you'll like this pencil when you grow up. Pencil has five qualities that make you always calm in their life, if you always hold these principles in this life."

The grandmother then describes five qualities of a pencil.

"Quality first, pencils remind you that you can do great thing in this life. Just like a pencil when writing, you should never forget that there are hands that always guide your steps in life. We call it the hand of God, He will always guide us by His will. "

"The quality of both, in the process of writing, the grandmother sometimes several times to stop and use a pencil sharpener to sharpen again grandma. Sharpener This will definitely make the pencil suffer. But after the whittling process is completed, the pencil will get sharp again. So also with you, in this life you have to dare to accept the suffering and distress, since it is they who will make you become a better person. "

"The quality of the third, pencils always give us the opportunity to use the eraser to correct the wrong words. Therefore fix our mistakes in life, not a bad thing. It can help us to remain on the right path."

"The quality of the fourth, the most important part of a pencil is not the outside, but the existing charcoal paste in a pencil. Therefore, always aware of things in you. Introspection themselves & do not blame other people first."

"The quality of the fifth, a pencil always leave marks / scratches. Like you, you must realize that whatever you do in life will leave an impression. Therefore, Always be careful and aware of all actions that hurt other people ill."

5 Simple Rules To Happiness

5 Simple Rules To Happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Life is simple.
4. Give more than demanding.
5. Expect a miracle in life.

• No one can turn back time to start a new one.
But anyone can start from now to create an entirely new end.

• God did not promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain point, but he promised to give strength every day, comfort for tears, and light illuminating the road.

• Disappointments are like road potholes.
He slows down your path, but you'll enjoy the smooth road afterwards.
Do not be too long lived on the street with holes.
Walk on!

• When you feel confused because they do not get what you want, sit quietly and be glad, because God has been thought to
give you something better.

• When something happens to you, good or bad.
Consider the meaning in it.
There was purpose in every event in life, to teach you to laugh longer and not to cry too hard.

• You can not make someone love you.
You can do is be someone who can be loved; the rest is up to people who can
realize that you are precious to him.
Better to lose the pride of the people you love, rather than losing someone you love because of pride.

• We spend too much time to find the right person to be loved.
Or find fault of the people we have loved, but it is better if we focus our attention to perfect love we give.

• Never abandon old friends.
You'll never be able to find someone who can take his place.
Friendship is like wine, it feels good increases in line with the passage of time.

7 Golden Rules Of Life

7 Golden Rules Of Life

1st
Do not let someone become a priority in your life when you just became a choice for life, the relationship goes well when it's all balanced

2nd
Do not explain our personal self to others, because people like you do not need it and the person who dislikes you will not believe

3rd
When you say busy, then you will not be free,
When you say that you do not have time, you will not have the time,
when you say that you would be doing it tomorrow, then tomorrow will never come (do not procrastinate)

4th
When we wake in the morning, we have two simple choices, go back to sleep and dream or wake up and chase your dreams. Options entirely yours!


5th
We make them (that matter to us) cry
We cry for someone who does not care about us,
and we care about to someone who never cry for us
That fact of life, strange but true. once you realize it, it's not too late to change

6th
Do not make promises when you're happy, do not reply kata2 when you're sad, do not take decisions when you're angry. thinking twice and act twice

7th
time like a river, you can not touch the same water for the second time, because water has flowed past will continue and will never return. .

A Reflection Back .. who Makes Me Smile

A Reflection Back .. who Makes Me Smile

While you want to release a person .. remember when you want it

While you begin to not love him ... remember the first time you fell in love with her

While you are getting bored with it ... remember always with her best time

While you want to double it ... imagine if he was always faithful

When you want to lie to him ... remember when he was honest with you

Then you will feel a sense she's for you

Do not till when she was not beside you,

You just realized all she means to you

The beautiful thing is only temporary

Which is eternal memories

One who accepts only from the heart

Only from sincere hearts

Not easy to find the missing

Not easy to chase dreams

But was not more difficult to maintain existing

Because although clasped also be detached

Remember the adage,

"If you do not have what you like, then love what you have today"

Learn to accept what is and positive thinking ....

Life is like a dream, as beautiful as any, so build it all disappear without trace

Luxury homes like castles, countless possessions, position and position weirdo, but ...

When the last breath comes, even a needle can not be taken away

Ply could not have

Moreover, who wants contested

Moreover, who would in pride

So Live the life of this with a conscience awareness

Do not be too calculating

Do not just want to win themselves

Do not like to hurt others especially to those who contributed to our

Learn no day without love

Always charitable chest and back down
Cheerful life, free free ...

Nothing that can not be at his candid ....

There's no pain that can not be forgiven
There was no resentment that can not be erased ....

Hopefully, every human being could be a great change for the better after reading this message.

About Human life

Human life is not short, filled with unforgotten trips. There are meetings, there are friendship, there are romance, and there was also hostility. Sometimes there is betrayal and there is also death.

Friends can be a boyfriend or girlfriend, friends can also become the enemy, that's why there is no such thing as a ex-friend, but it's called a ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend. Better not to add one enemy, because it is more meaningful than adding ten friends. But add one boyfriend or girlfriend really means a lot.

Having someone who loves us it was the happiest moment. So appreciate someone who loves us. Are willing to sacrifice for your sake. Everything can happen and we never expect. Nothing is perfect in this life, not all our desires can be met, so grateful for what you can whether it's been a friend or someone who loves you who fill your days so your life more colorful, and you can enjoy all your life with Happiness.

Do not regret later on, because what you've run the course has not been able to come back again, time has been wasted, can not be played back, do not be late to reach for Happiness. Do not continue to wait, the better the chance will not come a second time. Cherish the people around you. Because they or someone with fully love we can find the Happiness.

10 Attitude for Happy Life

10 Attitude for Happy Life

1. Deliver anxiety & fear.
Fear & anxiety is just imagination, the mind will be an event in the future that do not necessarily happen, most of the things you worry & fear which never happened! It's all only in your mind.

2. Dispose of revenge.
Anger & resentment which will only suck the energy saved yourself & only bring fatigue SOUL, throw!

3. Stop Complaining.
Complaining means always accept what is not present, you unconsciously carry negative charges.

4. When There are Problems, Complete one by one.
Only this is the way to handle each problem one by one.

5. Sleep well.
All problem need not be brought to bed.
This is bad & unhealthy, get used to sleep in comfort.

6. Stay away from other people's business.
Let other people's problems into their own affairs. They have their own way to deal with any problem.

7. Currently Live In, Not the Past.
Enjoy the past as memories, do not depend on it.
Concentrate your life on the event today, because what you have is today, not yesterday, not tomorrow.
"Be totally present"

8. Be a good listener.
As a listener, you learn & gain new ideas different from others.

9. Think Positive.
Frustration comes from negative thoughts.
Returned thinking positive. Befriend people who think positive and get involved with positive activities.

10. Be thankful.
Be thankful for small things that will be bringing you on the big things.
No matter how small the gift of who you are receiving, will produce great things & slalu take you to the joy when you are grateful.

The most reliable means of communication is a Prayer

Apparel is the world's most beautiful smile.

The most destructive habit is a worry.

The biggest joy is Giving.

Self-esteem is the biggest lost.

The most satisfying jobs are Helping others.

Worst personality is Selfish.

Endangered species is a leader who dedicated.

Our greatest resource is the younger generation.

Largest energy is the encouragement & enthusiasm.

The biggest problem to overcome is fear.

Sedative most effectual is a peaceful mind.

The most crippling failure is made for Reason.

The greatest power the world is Love.

The most dangerous human beings are gossips.

The most powerful computer on earth is the human mind.

The worst condition is no hope.

The most dangerous weapon is the tongue.

Greatest asset is faith.

The most worthless emotion is Inferiority complex.

Integrity is a priceless treasure.

The most reliable means of communication is a Prayer

Be Happy Person

Warren Buffet's advice to young kids: "Distance yourself from a bank loan or credit card and Investing with what you have and remember:

A. Money does not create man, Man create money.
B. Live simple as you love yourself.
C. Do not do whatever they say, listen to them, but do what is right.
D. Do not wear brand, wear really comfortable for you.
E. Do not spend money on things that are not really important.
F. If it had succeeded in life, practice and preach to others.

"Be Happy Person Is Not Great In All That, But People Can Find It Simple In His life and give thanks."

Being happy is easy

Why would anyone who "poor",
but it seems easy to be happy?

Conversely,
why there are people who, despite having had many things in hislife,
difficult to feel happy?

If so, what makes it feel happy?

Actually, to be happy is easy.

Come, let us test if you are a easy to feel happy?

Complete the statements below with the words that occurred spontaneously in your mind.

I feel happy, if ...
1. __________________________
_
2. ___________________________
3. ___________________________

Now, let's check your answers;

If your answer is something that is difficult and yet you have,
then you are a hard to feel happy.
To be happy just heavy condition.

Example;

I feel happy if the rich.
I feel happy if you have a home.
I feel happy if I were president.

That is,
if you are not rich or have a house or a major director,
You do not feel happy?

However,

if your answer is everyday occurrence,
something simple,
something easy you get,
or something that you already have,

then you can be happy all the time in your life.

Example;
I am happy when they see my child smile.
I feel happy when they see the sunrise.
I feel happy when leaving for work.

Whether you'll always see your baby smile? Often?
Are you going to see the sun rise tomorrow or the next day? Can you?
Do you still go to work tomorrow? There still?
Blessed for ввм ® are reading this, because ill be able to have all the org ..: D

Good friends,

Blessed!
Because happy is fun

Is simple!
Because simple is easy.

Start is!
S looked to be happy just with the weight requirements?

Blessed!
Today also ...

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According to you where happiness lies?

A farmer and his wife arm in arm down the street coming home from the fields while the rain washed down, pass a motorcycle in front of them, this farmer said to his wife "look rather, how happy husband and wife who ride motorcycles, although they also rained on, but they can quickly up at home, unlike us who have tired of walking to get home. "

Meanwhile, the motorcyclist and his wife who was tandem under the heavy rain saw a car pass in front of their pickup, the biker was saying to his wife "look rather, how happy people who drove it, they do not need rain like us". In the car driven by a pick up a couple conversations occurred when a sedan car in front of Mercy through their "look at the culture, how happy people who ride a good car, the car must have been comfortable in the drive, not like our cars are often on strike."

Mercy motorist was a wealthy man, and when he saw a couple walking hand in hand under the pouring rain, the rich man said to himself, "how happy husband and wife, they walked arm in arm with romantic while along the beautiful roads in rural This, while my wife and I never have time for both of us because each of busyness. "
Happiness you'll never have if you just look at other people's happiness, and always compare your life with other people's lives. Be thankful for your life just so you know where happiness resides.

Valuable Life

Valuable Life

When we are alone, we just know that family is precious.

When we are victorious, we feel a lot of friends around us, we do whatever Confidence.

When we were utterly helpless, then we realize who our true friends only.

But when we were down, we just realized this for a friend who just use us.

When we are sick, we just know that health is very important, far more than property.

When we are poor, we just know so many people have to give / charity and mutual aid.

When we get older, we just know that there are still many who have not worked.

And, once on the verge of death, we just knew who was so much time wasted.

Bro & sis, life is not long, it's time to let us together make LIFE MORE VALUABLE, with mutual respect, mutual help and give, support each other for common progress and be unconditionally loyal friend .... keep malicious intent to harm friends / force someone to do something that deviates for our personal interests, believe in KARMA.

What soweth, that shall harvested.

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30 second Speech by Bryan Dyson (CEO of Coca Cola)

30 second Speech by Bryan Dyson (CEO of Coca Cola)
Dear All

Greetings!

VERY SHORT, MOST EFFECTIVE AND HOW TRUE…
30 second Speech by Bryan Dyson (CEO of Coca Cola)

"Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them - Work, Family, Health, Friends and Spirit and you're keeping all of these in the Air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four Balls - Family, Health, Friends and Spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these; they will be irrevocably scuffed,marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same.


You must understand that and strive for it.”

Helpful For Environmental

Helpful For Environmental

When dawn broke, an elderly man walking on the beach while enjoying the fresh sea breeze hit the beach. In the distance he saw a child being picked up a starfish and threw it back into the water. After approaching the child, the old man asked in surprise;

'Why do you collect and throw back the starfish into the water?'. He asked.

'Because if left until the morning sun came to shine, the stranded starfish would soon die of drought. " Replied the little one.

'But the beach is wide and many miles in length. " The old man said while pointing his finger towards the start wrinkled the vast sandy beach. 'After all there are millions of starfish stranded. I doubt whether you are accomplishing it really has a great meaning. " Full of doubt he continued.

Old boy looked at the starfish in his hand without saying a word. Then he tossed it gently into the sea to survive and live.


'I believe my efforts really have great meaning at least for this one. " Said the little one. Indeed we can not benefit the wider world, but at least we can benefit the people around us who need it. So why do not we start doing something worthwhile, start today.

Because one thing we do and useful for a person more valuable than we suppose only just. Little things we can do better and start from ourselves or middlemost. Hopefully we are getting wise, love, and wise.

From Small Things will be Great

From Small Things will be Great!

A big bear is waiting patiently all day with torrential rivers edge, this time the fish were not in season. Since the morning he was standing there trying to grab the fish jumping out of water.

However, none too successful he was catching fish. After the second try and again, finally .. .. Hup.. he caught a small fish interchangeable.

Fish were caught screaming, lamented the small fish in the bear, "O bear, please release me."
"Why?: Ask the bears.
"Do not you see, I was too small, can even pass through the slot-two teeth," groaned the fish.

"So what?" asked the bear again.
"Look, please return me to the river, after a few months I will grow into big fish, at that time you can catch me and eat me to satisfy your appetite." the word fish.

"O fish, you know why I could grow so big?" bear asked "Why," replied the fish asked, shaking his head.
"Because I never give up even the slightest luck that had clutched in his hand!" bear replied, smiling confidently. "Ops!" cried the fish.

In life, we are given many options and opportunities. But if we do not want to open our hearts and our eyes to see and accept the opportunities that God gives it the chance it will just disappear. And this will only create lasting regret to at a later date, when we had to say: "Ohhhh ... if only I did not squander that opportunity once ..!!!?.
So wise in life, appreciate every detail of a chance in our lives.

While difficult, there's always room to improve the situation ;....
While sad, there is always a chance to regain happiness; ....
At the moment there is always a chance fell to rise again; ....
And in the worst conditions there is always a chance to regain the best for our lives ....

If we are faithful in small things then we will get a big case. When we appreciate the opportunities are slim, so it will be a great opportunity.

Grateful to all that God give us

Grateful to all that God give us

Those words are very touchy, so beautiful, and cans make you think that having positive thinking about it makes our life more worth .....

Consider this before you start complaining about things that happen in your life ...

1. Today before you say the words that are not good,
Think about someone who can not speak at all

2. Before you complain about the taste of food:
Think about someone who does not have anything to eat.

3. Before you complain do not have anything,
Think about someone who is begging on the streets.

4. Before you complain that you're bad,
Think about someone who was at the level of the worst in his life.

5. Before you complain about your husband or wife,
Think about someone who is pleading to God to be given a life partner

6. Today before you complain about life,
Think about someone who died too soon

7. Before you complain about your children,
Think about someone who really wants to have children but she was barren

8. Before you complain about your home is dirty because the helpers are not doing their duties,
Think about the people who live on the streets

9. Before you complain about the distance you have to drive,
Think about someone who travel the same distance by walking

10. And when you are tired and complain about your job,
Think of the unemployed, disabled people who wish they had a job like you.

11. Before you show the finger and blame someone else,
Remember that no one is innocent.

12. And when you're sad and your life is in distress,
Smile and thank the Lord that you're still alive!


So ... ... .. stop complaining, face the sweet bitterness of life with gratitude for all that God has given ....

The Perfect Heart

The Perfect Heart

At one point in a village there was a young man who prided himself that he is perfect. He shouted at the crowd while showing off his heart and said,

"Behold this heart, so beautiful is not it? Look at the color of fresh red and well shaped, completely perfect heart yes."

And everyone noticed his heart and was amazed to see them chuckle. Suddenly there came a grandfather and said,

"Your heart is good kid, but if I had to change my heart with your heart, I would not want to do it."

There was a crowd turned attention to the grandfather's heart. But the heart The grandfather was not good, there are many cracks and even have the blanks in his heart. Not at all interesting. So with astonishment the young man asked,

"Why do you not trade a bad heart was with my heart that was clearly better this, Grandpa?"

The Grandfather replied, "My heart is so shaped this way because I often give it to someone else, if I do, sometimes they also give their hearts, though not as large, there are many cracks in my heart because I received a part that is not the same as those already I gave you, there are also people who have given my heart do not give their hearts as well as a return, and that is why there are parts that are empty in my heart space. Because there are some people like you the young, who guarded her tightly and not give the slightest of his heart to someone else for fear of being hit, fear of betrayal and not returned. "

Chance & Choice

Chance & Choice

Meeting is a chance ..

Love is a choice ..

When meeting someone who makes us interested, It's not a choice, that opportunity ..

If we decide to love that person, even with his faults ..
It's not a chance, it is a choice ..

When we choose to be with someone no matter what happens, in fact, when we realize that there are many others more interesting, more intelligent, richer than our partner, and still choose to love it ..
It's not a chance, it is a choice ...

Feelings of love, sympathetic, interested, came as a chance in our lives ..

But a mature love, love with a commitment before God and man are options ...

Maybe a chance to reconcile us with our soul mate ..
But love and stay with our soul mate, a choice that we must be held accountable before God and man.

We are the world not to find someone who's perfect to be loved .. But for people who love LEARN Not Perfect .. By way of the Perfect ...

Let's LEARN to love and cherish our spouse is not Perfect Perfect way ..

Because our partner is our soul mate .. In order for our soul becomes perfect in the presence of God ...

Destiny that unite. Beautiful design has been prepared by Him.

Fern and Bamboo

Fern and bamboo

Once upon a man who was desperate and wanted to leave everything. Leaving a job, relationship, and stop living. He then went to the woods to have one last talk with God is the Divine Creator.

"God," he said. "Does God could give me one good reason to not stop living and give up?"

God's answer is very surprising. "Look around you. Do you see the fern and the bamboo? ".

"Yes," replied the man.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I treat both of them are very good. I gave them light. Provide water. Fern grows fast in the earth. Fresh green leaves are covered forest land surface. In the meantime, do not produce any bamboo seeds. But I do not give up. In the second year, the fern grew more and more fertile, but there also has not emerged from the bamboo seed. But I do not give up. In the third year, yet also reveals the bamboo seed something. But I do not give up. In the 4th, still do not have any from the bamboo seed. I do not give up, "He said.

"In its fifth year, showing a small bud. Compared with the tree ferns, buds that looked small and not significant. But six months later the bamboo rose to 100 feet. To grow the roots that need a period of 5 years. This makes a strong bamboo roots and bamboo to give what it takes to survive. I'm not going to give the trials could not overcome my creations, "said God told him.

"I tell you, my child, in the face of all difficulties and struggles of this weight, you actually grow roots? I did not leave the bamboo. I also will not leave. Do not compare yourself with others, "said God.

"Bamboo has a different purpose to the fern. But both make the forest beautiful. Your day will come. You will rise and stand tall. "Do not ever think God is leaving you. His promise must never change.

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Problems like Boiling Water Parable

Problems like Boiling Water Parable

A newly married woman who came to her mother and complained about her husband's behavior. After a noisy wedding party some time ago, before she knew her husband's original character. Stubborn, likes to sit idle, wasteful, selfish, etc.

The young mother hoping her parents blamed her husband's part. But how shocked was her mother's silence heard her complaints. Even her mother and then even went into the kitchen, while her daughter continued to tell, and follow it

Her mother and cooking water. After all this time, water is boiling. The mother poured hot water into three glasses that had been prepared.

At first she entered Glass Egg. In the second glass, she put the carrot. And in the third glass, she filled it with coffee. After waiting a few moments, she raised the contents of the three glasses earlier. Carrots are so hard to be soft, easily broken eggs become hard and Coffee exudes fragrant aroma.

Then the mother explains "My son, problems is like boiling water , however, what is our attitude that will determine its impact.

We can be:
Softening like carrots.
Hardens like Eggs
Or coffee-like Aroma

In each issue, who actually saved precious pearl of faith. It's easy to be grateful when things right,

But whether we can continue to believe when the Lord's help as never come?

Today we learned there are three reactions of people when trouble comes.
There is so soft, like to complain, and love yourself. There are hardened angry and rebellious to God. There is also precisely the more fragrant, more obedient and submissive to believe in Him

Sometimes God intentionally delaying His help.
What's the purpose?
So that we learn to believe there never was a problem that can not be God's complete

Big Waves and Small Waves

Big Waves and Small Waves

One day, Chang Yi to come to his teacher with a groan.
Yi Chang said, "Teacher, I have a lot of effort into doing things well in the shop my employer. But still, my employer did not satisfy javascript:void(0)my performance but the best among the other employees. My employer always dissatisfied and demanding. I have to how teacher? "

His teacher said, "Chang Yi, ye have done everything properly, it must be maintained. Not all men are perfect, but we must strive to improve ourselves to achieve what is expected by your employer. We need to look up, but occasionally also need to look down. While we no longer feel less fair, we try to imagine the hard times we are successful we passed. Keep fighting then the heavens will be seen, and his eyes will open to see our persistence. Then he will pave our roads. We live in the world is full of struggle. Do not quickly give up. Sometimes we can be above, sometimes we can be under. Like a spinning wheel. Like waves on the beach, sometimes we become large waves, sometimes we can also be a small wave. Once you've tried your best, do not forget to thank the heavens for what he gave to us, although it does not fit 100% with our desires. With our belief we will succeed "

Life Principle

Life Principle

1. The beginning of love is to let those who we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them into the image of who we want? If not, we love only the reflection of ourselves who we find in him.

2. It takes only a minute to assess a person, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone but it takes a Lifetime to forget someone.

3. Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who seek and those who tried. Because only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.

4. Never say Goodbye if you still want to try - never give up if you still feel able, do not ever say you do not love him anymore if you still can not forget it.

5. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling - Live your life so well, so when you die, you're smiling and everyone around you crying

6. Dream what you want to dream, go to the place where you want to go, be what you want, because you have only one life and one chance to do things you want to do

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Book of Life

Book of Life

There is in my hand a blank book that the Lord has given me to write about.

God says: "Write down all your good deeds in this book.

I'm doing what God said.

Each time doing good deeds and I will write it into the book.

Every day I wrote the book thicker. But sometimes on a particular page often tarnished by the ink that makes the page is broken.

I asked God, 'How can I remove ink that damage the existing pages in the book? "

God said, "The page can not be tarnished by the ink in the clear, no human is perfect, sometimes people fall into sin, but human beings have the ability to minimize mistakes that are not broken pages and more. For now we miss the broken pages , we start again a new page to write all our good deeds "

Recall all your good deeds so you'll always feel the happiness. Try not to do acts that do not conform to His will so that the pain and sorrow do not come to you.

Every good deed there must be a good reward as well.

When God does not answer your prayer, He added patience ...

When God answers your prayers, your faith ... He adds

When God answers your prayers who is not, he choose the best for you ..

Have a Blessed Day

The Secret of Happiness

The Secret of Happiness

The secret of happiness is
focus on the good in others. Because, life is like a painting ... To see the beauty of even the best paintings, see under bright light, not the place closed and dark as well as a warehouse.

The secret of happiness is
not avoid trouble. Climbing up the hill, not by sliding, someone to grow into strong legs.

The secret of happiness is
doing things for others. Water is not flowing is not growing. However, freely flowing water is always fresh and crisp.

The secret of happiness is
learn from others, and not try to teach them. The more we show how much we know, the more others will try to find deficiencies in our knowledge.

The secret of happiness is
kindness ... view others as a member of our big family. Therefore, every creature is ours. We are all God's creation is one.

The secret of happiness is
laughing with others, as a friend, and not laugh at them, as a judge.

The secret of happiness is
not arrogant. If we consider them important, we'll have friends wherever we go. Remember that most big raccoon will issue the most stinging odor.

Happiness comes to those who give love freely, which does not ask others to love them first. Be generous like the sun that emits light without first asking whether people deserve warmth.

Happiness is to accept whatever comes, and keep telling yourself "I'm free in me."

Happiness means to make others happy. Meadows full of flowers need the trees around him, instead of concrete buildings that stiff. Surround the wilderness of our lives with happiness.

Happiness comes from accepting others as they are, in fact they are not wanted as it is. How boring life would be if everyone was the same. Is not the park will look odd if all the flowers are purple?

The secret of happiness is
keep our hearts open to others, and to experience the life-experience. Heart like a door of a house. Sunlight can only be entered when the door was wide open.

The secret of happiness is
understand that friendship is far more valuable than goods; more valuable than taking care of their own affairs; more valuable than insisting on the truth in matters that are not principled.

Think about every secret there is in it. Feel it.

Love And Married

Love And Married

One day, Plato asked his teacher, "What is love? How do I find it?

His teacher replied, "There is a vast wheat field in front of it. You can walk over and without retreating, then take just one branch. If you find a branch that you think is the most amazing, then you have found love."

Plato walked forward, and before long, he returned with empty hands, having picked nothing. His teacher asked, "Why do not carry any sticks?"

Plato answered, "I'm only allowed to bring one thing, and when walking should not be pulled back (turn around). Actually, I've discovered the most amazing, but I do not know if there is even more remarkable in front there, so did not pick it. When I walked further, I realized that I had found twigs and branches are not as good as before, so I do not take anything until the end of a twig "

His teacher then said, "So that's love"

On another day, Plato asked his teacher: "What is marriage? How can I find?"

His teacher replied "There's a lush forest in front there. Walk without may retreat back (turns) and you can only cut down one tree. And cut down if you find the highest tree, because then you have found marriage "

Plato walked forward, and before long, he returned with a tree. The tree is a tree that is not fresh / fertile, and not too high. The tree was mediocre.

His teacher asked, "Why do you cut a tree like that?"

Plato said, "because based on previous experience, after exploring nearly half the forest, I found myself back with empty hands. So on this occasion, I saw this tree, and I think it is not so bad, so I decided to cut them down and bring it here. I do not want to eliminate the chance to get it "

His teacher had then replied, "And that is marriage"


NOTE - SMALL:

Love is increasingly sought, the more was not found. Love the inside of the heart, when it can resist the urge and hope that more. When an excess of hope and desire for love, then got is emptiness. Nothing gained nothing, and can not be pushed back again. Time and time can not be played back. Accept what love is.

Marriage is a continuation of Love. Is the process of getting an opportunity, when you find the best among the choices, and will reduce the chance to get it, When you get to perfection, then wasting your time in getting the marriage, because, in fact it was empty of perfection.

Salt and Lake

Salt and Lake


Once upon a time there lived a wise old man. On one morning, there came a young man who was dogged by problems .. Unsteady gait with an intricate face. Guest did look like someone who was not happy.

Without wasting time, people were telling all of the problem. A wise old man, but listen carefully. He then took one tablespoon of salt, and asked his guests to get a glass of water. He sprinkled salt into a glass and stirred slowly. "Try to drink this water, and tell me how it feels .." said the old man. "Salty. Salty at all! "Replied the guest, spitting to the side.

The old man smiled a little. He then invited his guest to walk to the edge of the pond in the woods near his home. The old man then returned to sprinkle a tablespoon of salt into the lake. With a piece of wood, made waves stirring the mixture and created ripples of water, disturbing the calm lake. "Try to take water from this lake, and drink." When the guests had finished sipping the water, the old man said again "How does it feel?" "Casual. Fresh .. "answered his guest. "What did you feel the salt in the water?" Said the old man again. "No," replied the young.

With the wise old man sitting opposite him, knelt beside the lake. "Young man, listen. Bitterness of life is like a handful of salt, no more and no less. The amount and it is the same bitter taste, and it will remain the same.

"But the bitterness we feel, will greatly depend on the container that we have. The bitterness will be based from feeling where we put everything. It all depends on our hearts. So when you feel the bitterness and failure in life, there's only one thing you can do. Relieve your chest to receive everything. Expand your heart to accommodate any bitterness. "

"Your heart is the container. Your feelings is the place. Your soul is where you collect everything. So do not make your heart is like glass, make like a lake that is able to reduce any bitterness and turn it into the freshness and happiness. "

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A Thinking Philosopher

A Thinking Philosopher

One day, someone who was crying in the garden of a breakup, when it came to a philosopher would ask, "Why are you crying ????"

The man replied, "I'm very sad, why did she leave me ???!"

Then the philosopher was laughing, saying ... "You're so stupid ..."

Then the man said ... "You are what? Breakup and I'm sad enough, never mind if you do not persuade me, but you still laugh at me."

"Fool, you do not have to be sad, because that should be sad is she" said that philosophy.

"Why is she a sad, is not she who decided that me??" Said the man ...

"Because you just lost someone who does NOT love you, but she lost someone VERY loving her" replied the philosopher.

Translate form "Pemikiran Seorang Filsuf"

Walking With Snail

Walking With Snail

God gave me an assignment, bring snail walking together.
I can not way too fast, the snail has been trying hard to crawl. Each time such a move only slightly.
I urged, rebuked, reprimanded him, looked at me with eyes asking conch-apologize, seemed to say: "I've tried with all my strength!"

I tugged, dragged, kicked and even, snails were injured. He was pouring sweat, breath panting, crawling forward.
It's odd, why God asked me to take a snail for a walk.
My God! Why? Silent sky. Just let the snails crawl in front, behind it upsets me. Keep your steps, calm the heart ....

Oh? Suddenly smelled flowers, it turns out this is a flower garden.
I feel the gentle breeze blowing, it was so gentle evening breeze.
There's more! I heard the sound of birds chirping, buzzing worms.
I saw a brilliant star-filled sky.
Oh? Why did not feel all this?
Then I thought, Maybe I've got the wrong idea!

It turned out that the Lord led me to ask snail streets so that I can feel the beauty of understanding and this garden that never happened to me if I'm walking alone so quickly.
"He's here and with me for a reason"
We met people who truly loved you,
Should try to get a chance to be with his all your life.
Because when he is gone, everything has been delayed.

We met a friend who can be trusted, get along with him
Because human life, true friends do not easily found.
We met your helper,
Remember to be grateful to him.
Because it was he who changed your life

We met people who have loved you,
Remember to smile for the thank-you.
Because she is the one who makes you understand more about love.

We met people who have you hated,
Greet with a smile.
Because it makes you more strong and strong.

We met people who never betrayed you, Good-all right Talk with him.
Because if not for him, today you do not understand this world.

We met people who had secretly you love,
Bless him.
Because when you love him, hoping he would not be happy?

We met people in a hurry to leave,
Thank-You that he ever existed in your life.
Because he is a part of your nostalgia

We met people who have one-understood you,
Use the time to explain it.
Because you may only have one opportunity only to explain

We met people who currently come with a lifetime,
Thanks - fully that he loves you.
Because now you find happiness and true love ..

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Piano Our lives

Piano Our lives

Life is like a piano ..

There are the white keys, depicting the life of our good, successful, healthy, blessed, and all the prayers be answered.

But apart from that there are also black keys, which were fewer than the white ones, as a dark picture of life, when we should cry, hurt, rejected, maligned, fail, fail, etc..

Sometimes we reject the shadow of death, when such keys in the piano, just when we allowed our Supreme Lord composer plays "Piano Our lives", should HE suppress black keys and white keys, so you will hear a beautiful melody ..

Do not ever deny the shadow of death in this life, but the face and live with joy, and allow God to use darkness to create a beautiful symphony in your life.

translated from "Piano Kehidupan"

The Parable About the Couple Living and Grass

The Parable About the Couple Living and Grass

Teacher, ... I wanted to ask how to find a life partner? Can you help me?

The teacher paused and then replied ... "That's an easy question but difficult"

The boy made his teacher was confused by the answers. "Well ... Take a look into the future, a lot of grass there. Please you walk to get there but do not walk backwards, keep walking straight ahead, when you try to walk swatch of the most beautiful piece of grass and then give it to me. But remember, only a blade of grass "

The young man was walking down a broad meadow. In that trip he found a beautiful lawn but not on take it. Because he thinks will find a more beautiful. And without the young man realized he had reached the end of the pasture. In the end he took a piece of the most beautiful grass in the prairie edge. Then back to the teacher.

The teacher said "I see nothing special on the grass in your hand."

Then the boy said. "In my journey through this meadow, I found few beautiful grass, but I think I'll find a more beautiful in my trip. But without me realize I've been at the end of the meadow and then I took a piece of grass of the most beautiful existing at the end of the meadow because the teacher forbade me to come back. The teacher replied with a smile "That's what happens in real life"

* The grass is like a person - someone who's around you
* The grass is beautiful like the people who interest you
* Meadow like a time

"In looking for life partner, do not always compare and hope that something better. Because by doing that ... you have removed waste of time ... and remember Time Is Never Go Back"

A Dog, Rooster and the Fox

A Dog, Rooster and the Fox


A dog and a rooster are best friends, hoping that one day they will be able to travel the world and find new adventures. So they then decided to leave the farm and travel around the world through a road that led into the forest. The two friends were walking together in the spirit and not meet with the adventure that they often talked about.

At night, the cock, looking for a place to perch as was his custom, he saw a tree that he thought the tree was hollow and very good to be a place to stay. The dog can slip into the hole the tree and the chicken can fly to the top of one branch of the tree. Both then went to sleep peacefully in the tree.

At dawn, the rooster woke up and for a moment he forgets where he is. He thinks he's still at the farm where his job was to wake the whole house in the morning. Now with the stand on his toes, he flapped his wings and crowing with excitement.

But instead of farmers who woke up to hear him crow a fox but he woke the sleeping not far from the tree. The fox quickly looked toward the roaster and thought that he got a very tasty breakfast. Quickly he approached the tree where the rooster perched, and said politely:

"Welcome to our forests, the great lord. I can not speak how glad I met you in this place. I feel confident that we will become good friends."

"I'm flattered, good lord." The rooster said shyly. "If you really want, go to the door of my house under the tree, my maid will let you go."

The fox is hungry it did not suspect anything, walking toward the hole under the tree as it sent, and in the blink of an eye dog that was sleeping in tree holes were ambushed.

Moral message: Who is going to cheat, will receive the result itself.

This story is part of Aesop's Fables Series
Aesop was a storyteller who reputedly lived 600 years before Christ. Fairy-tale was always taught to human goodness or policy. (Aesop's Fables)

3 x 8 = 23

3 x 8 = 23

Yan Hui was a disciple of Confucius who likes to learn and have good properties.

On a day when Yan Hui was on duty, he saw a fabric store is a lot of people.
He approached and found a buyer and seller of fabric is being debated.

Buyer shouted: "3 × 8 = 23, why did you say 24?"
"Yan Hui approached the buyers of cloth and said:" Comrade, 3 × 8 = 24, there's no longer debatable. "

Fabric buyers are not happy and pointed nose and Yan Hui said: "Who asked your opinion? If want to ask for an opinion must ask to Confucius. True or false entitled Confucius said. "

Yan Hui: "Well, if Confucius says you're wrong, how?"

Fabric buyers: "If Confucius says I'm wrong, my head I cut for you. If you are wrong, how? "

Yan Hui: "If I'm wrong, my position for you."

Both parties agreed to a bet, then went in seeing Confucius.

After Confucius knew seated problem, Confucius said to Yan Hui said, laughing: "3 × 8 = 23. Yan Hui, you lose. Give your job to him. "

Yan Hui forever will not argue with the teacher.
When I heard Confucius say he is wrong, then he lowered his hat to give to buyers of cloth.

The man took his hat and went with Yan Hui satisfied.

Although Yan Hui received a rating Confucius but his heart did not agree. He felt old and senile Confucius that he no longer wished to learn from him.

Yan Hui asked for leave of absence by reason of family affairs. Confucius knew Yan Hui's heart and gave him leave.

Before departure, Yan Hui, Confucius asked him goodbye and quickly returned after the business was complete, and gives two advices Yan Hui: "When a heavy rain, do not take shelter under a tree. And do not kill people. "

Yan Hui said okay and went home. On the way sudden gale accompanied by lightning, it seems already to heavy rain. Yan Hui want to take shelter under a tree and then suddenly remember the advice of Confucius and the liver thought to obey said the teacher once again. He left the tree. Not long ago he went, lightning strikes and trees were destroyed. Yan Hui was surprised, the teacher's first advice was proved.

Am I going to kill people? Yan Hui reached his home it was late and did not want to disturb her sleep.
He uses his sword to open the room. Arriving in front of the bed, he felt and found no one on the left side of the bed and one on the right side. He was very angry, and willing drew his sword.

At the time of going to use his sword, he remembered the advice of Confucius again, do not kill.
He then lit candles and turned the bed beside his wife was the sister of his wife.

The next day, back to Confucius, Yan Hui, knelt and said: "Teacher, how do teachers know what will happen?"
Confucius said: "Yesterday was very hot days, is expected to rain lightning, so the teacher remind you to not take shelter under a tree.
You went yesterday with anger and carrying a sword, warn teachers not to kill ".

Yan Hui said: "Teacher, your forecast is great, students are very impressed."

Confucius said: "I know you go on leave not because of family matters. You do not want to learn more from me. Try you think. Yesterday the teacher told me 3 × 8 = 23 is correct, you lose and lose your job.
But if the teacher said 3 × 8 = 24 is correct, the fabric buyer losers and that means going to lose one's life. Do you think your job is more important or losing one's life more important? "

Yan Hui aware of the mistake and said: "Teachers are more concerned with the major, students actually think teachers are old and senile. Pupils really embarrassed. "

Since then, wherever Yan Hui, Confucius went always followed.

This story reminds us: Even if I bet and win the whole world, but I'm losing you, what it means. In other words, you bet to win what you think is the truth, but instead lost something more important. Many things there are levels of importance. Do not bet mati2an gara2 to the principle that truth, but eventually even regret, come too late.

Many things to unnecessary risk. Step backward, instead got is good for everyone.

Against the customer insisted. We won, but actually lost as well. (When we love again sample the goods, we will understand)

Against the boss insisted. We won, but actually lost as well. (At year-end bonus assessment, we will understand)

Insisted against your spouse. We won, but actually lost as well. (your Spouse so do not feel at home at home)

Insisting against a friend. We won, but actually lost as well. (We'd lose a friend).

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My Son Make Me Understand Meaning of Happiness

My Son Make Me Understand Meaning of Happiness

This story is based on the true story of a famous artist in Hong Kong and Taiwan. Here we ignore their names. This story inspires us about life and family. I was born as a very lucky girl. Life as a celebrity is very smooth, something to be pursued with great effort by others, for once I reached out just as easily I can get, it is very reasonable. It makes me a snob. At the time I was 30 years old, my mood changed suddenly strange, I was not satisfied anymore with the days filled with the glamorize and debauchery, I suddenly wanted to have a child. Age 37 years old I gave birth to a son, Oscar its Latin name, because I was a celebrity, the Oscar is the highest award from the world of celebrity.

Since the first time I carried his in my arms, I have been planning a way of life in the future - I want him to become an actor best small. Starting from the smallest things such as clothing, food, shelter, accommodation and others, all of them deliberately establish with all the attention. When my son was 5 years old, I introduced it before the general public. At that time I got an invitation to the north of Thailand to cover the refugee village, I took him along.

When processing time shooting, I told him to memorize some of the dialogue scenarios, then camera shooting to him. Time was broadcast on TV, Hong Kong was in an uproar. Everyone was hysterical, admired as a gifted child. Having successfully in Hong Kong, I took him going to Taiwan to be star, he includes an exhibition on the international branded kids clothing, as well as set the occasion for him to walk on the catwalk. It is reported on a large scale by reputable media, only in my child's overnight fame has spread all over Taiwan. To further my own using my fame to promote it with all his ability, let alone her appearance can also be developed, he quickly has become the little movie star.

But at that time, there was a very horrible event, my son was kidnapped while going to school. Although the kidnapper was always threatening to not report the matter to the police, after repeatedly much consideration, I finally fixed to the police, the kidnappers have been caught sooner. When I opened the box where the kidnappers hid my child, my breath immediately became cold - the kidnappers have provided prayer candles and paper in the box.

Very clearly, they had planned to kill my child once they have received a ransom. The kidnapping incident, make my child so depressed, mentally experiencing a heavy blow. Since then he had absolutely no longer want to appear in public with me. Once back home he immediately locked himself in his room, even called to dinner he had not come out. Food was delivered to the front room he would not open the door, he just let the food put in front of her door, after which he will take away just quietly opened the door and took dinner and then went back into the room.

Seeing condition of my child, my heart is getting torn-carved. After I consult with many psychiatrists, advice which I get only one that is healing with time. I keep back my tears, and said to myself: "No problem, God has been generous to me, He had to return my child alive. "With the instinct of love of a mother I began to learn to live side by side with him, everything I do this in order to make him happy, let him do what he desired.

Inviting his classmates to playing at home, hanging out with my classmate who did not consider personality and not rich, wearing jeans and a T-shirt, cheap, no longer neatly combed hair, no longer practicing music, and so forth. On holiday I no longer take him to a museum or opera house. I let him free to determine the place and wants his own holiday event. At the time in Egypt, we rode a camel together, watching the statue of Sphinx in front of the pyramid. My child is sitting in front of me, leaned on my chest.

Suddenly he stirred, while slightly leaned his head on my chest, with a muttered he said, "Mama, thank you." I have made his the best student in school, he did not thank me, I've made a little movie star, He also did not thank me, I've decided to make it up with all my wealth, he never thanked me. Precisely at the top of this wilderness, as he was leaning in my arms, he has sincerely thanked me. Word "thank you", has made me understand that all the glory that I have no comparison with these words. I realize that life's like this that can make my child really - really really feel the happiness and satisfaction.

Three years of recovery, my son finally cured. Along with the recovery of my child, I also experienced an essential change. I am no longer proud, can understand and sympathize with others, turned into a more mature and able to control myself, other than that I also understand the meaning of happiness itself, namely: Life in the tranquility, relatives of survivors. • (Source: Epochtimes)

Selasa, 17 Agustus 2010

Dancing In The Rain

Dancing In The Rain


The morning was very busy clinic. Around 9:30 a-70-old man came to open the stitches on the wound in the mother's finger. I prepare the file and asked him to wait, because all the doctors are busy, maybe he just could have been treated at least 1 hour.


While waiting, the old man seemed nervous, intermittently glancing at his watch. I feel sorry for. So when I'm free to check wound,and it seems quite good and dry, stay open stitches and put a new bandage. Work that is not too difficult, so the approval of a doctor, I decided to do it myself.


While handling the wound, I asked if he had another appointment to look in a hurry.


The old man said no, he's going to a nursing home until lunch with his wife, as he did every day. He told me that his wife was treated therefor some time and his wife suffered from Alzheimer's disease.


Then I asked he if his wife would be angry if he came too late.


He replied that she was no longer able to recognize it since the last 5 years.


I was very surprised and said, "And you still go there every day even if your wife does not know anymore?"


He smiled as his hand patted my hand, saying, "She did not recognize me, but I still recognize her, Right?"


I hold back tears until he was gone, my hands still shiver, "Love you like that's what I want in my life."


True love is not physical or romantic. True love is accepting what is happening there today, that has happened, what will happen, and that will never happen.


These experiences give me an important message: The happiest people aren't necessarily have the best of everything, they just do the best with what they have.


"Life is not a struggle against the storm, but how to keep dancing in the rain."

Translate form "Menari di Tengah Hujan"

Dream Thief (Do not Be Negative minded person)

Dream Thief (Do not Be Negative minded person)

There was a young girl who really likes to dance. Dancing versatility is very prominent compared with his peers, so she is often become champions in various competitions are held. She thought, with what they have today, a moment when you grow up she wants to become a world-class dancers. She imagines herself dancing in Russia, China, America, Japan, and watched by thousands of people who gave him a pat.

One day, in her town was visited by an expert dance originating from overseas. This expert is very great, and has a lot of cold hands born world-class dancers. This young girl wanted to dance and show his skill in front of these experts, even if it may get the chance to become his disciple. Finally the opportunity came.

The young girl managed to meet the experts behind the stage, after a performance of dance. The young girl asked "Sir, I am eager to become a world class dancer. Do you have a moment, to rate my dancing? I want to know what you think about my dance." Okay, dance in front of me during the 10 minute ", answered the experts.

Not to mention the 10 minutes passed, the expert stood from her chair and left the young girl passed away, without saying a word. What destroyed the young girl saw the attitude of the experts. The girl ran out. Come home, she immediately burst into tears. She became a hate towards itself. Apparently during this dance that she is proud not nothing in the face of the expert. Then she picked up her dance shoes, and she cast into the warehouse.

Since then, she vowed never to dance again. Dozens of years passed. The young girl has now become a mother with three children. Her husband had died. And to support her family, she worked to be the servant of a shop on the corner. One day, there was a dance show which was held in the city. The experts appear to be among the young dancing backstage. The experts seem old, with hair that was white. The young mother with three children also came to the dance performances.

After the event, the mother was carrying her three children into the back of the stage, looking for the expert, and introduced her three children to the expert. The experts still recognize this young mother, and then they talked intimately. The mother asked, "Mrs., there is one question that lump in my heart. It's about my appearance while dancing in front of you many years ago. So much ugly I look at it, so you leave me to go straight away, without saying a word word? " "Oh yes, I remember the event. Frankly, I've never seen such a beautiful dance you do at that time. I think you will become a world class dancer. I do not understand why you suddenly stopped from the world of dance", replied the expert.

The young mother was very surprised to hear answers to the expert. "It's not fair," cried the young mother. "The attitude you've stolen all my dreams. If I have a nice dance, why you left me just when I just danced a few minutes. You ought to praise me, and not just ignored me. Should I become a world class dancer. Not only clerk! "The expert replied quietly:" No. .... No, I think I've done it right.

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DRINK ONE BARREL WINE FOR ROVE THAT GOOD WINE. Likewise I am. I do not have to watch you 10 minutes to prove you dance good. That night I also really tired after the show. So I leave you for a moment, to take my card, and hope you will contact me again the next day. But you were gone when I came out. And one thing you have to bear in mind, that you should FOCUS ON YOUR DREAM, NOT ON MY ACTION OR ACKNOWLEDGMENT.

Then a compliment? You expect praise? Ah, then you are growing. PRAISE IS LIKE A double-edged sword. There are times when MOTIVATING YOU, can also weaken YOU. And in fact I see that most PRAISE THAT SOMEONE IS PROVIDED ON GROW, WILL ONLY MAKE SATISFIED HIMSELF AND STOP growth. MY exactly prefer ignoring you, FOR THINGS THAT YOU CAN GROW FASTER whipped up AGAIN. Moreover, the praise should come from the desire of my own. INAPPROPRIATE YOU ASKING FOR PRAISE OF OTHERS "." You see, this is really just a small matter. Had you at that time not ignoring what is happening and keep dancing, maybe today you have become a world-class dancers. Maybe you hurt at the time, but the hurt you will quickly disappear as soon as you are practicing again. But the hurt that you regret this day will never be lost for ever.

Translate from "Pencuri Mimpi"

Shuo Le Zai Jian (Say Goodbye)

Jay Chou - Shuo Le Zai Jian (Say Goodbye)

Tian liang le, Yu xia le, Ni zou le
The weather is cool, the rain is falling, you are leaving

Qing chu le, Wo ai de, Yi shi le
It is crystal clear that I have lost my dear one

Luo ye piao zai hu mian shang shui zhao le
The fallen leaves rest upon the surface of the lake



Xiang yao fang, Fang bu diao, Lei zai piao
I want to let go, but it is hard to do so, the tears are falling

Ni kan kan, Ni kan kan bu dao
You look, but you don't see

Wo jia zhuang guo qu bu zhong yao, Que fa xian zi ji ban bu dao
I pretend to myself that the past is insignificant, but I realize that I cannot do it



Shuo le zai jian, Cai fa xian zai ye jian bu dao
Having said goodbye, I realize that I will probably never see you again

Wo bu neng jiu zhe yang shi qu ni de wei xiao
I can't just lose your smile like this

Kou hong dai zai zhuo jiao
The lipstick sits on the edge of the table

Er ni wo zhao bu dao
But I can no longer find you

Ruo jiao se dui diao ni shuo hao bu hao
What do you say to reversing roles with each other?



Shuo le zai jian, Cai fa xian zai ye jian bu dao
Having said goodbye, I realize that I will probably never see you again

Neng bu neng jiu zhe yang ren zhe tong lei bu diao
Can I just hold back my tears, and hope they won't fall?

Shuo hao pei wo dao lao
You said you'd be with me till we were old

Yong heng wang na li zhao
Where do I find eternity now ?

Zai ci yong bao yi fen yi miao dou hao
Just another embrace, just for a minute or even a second.



Tian liang le, Yu xia le, Ni zou le
The weather is cool, the rain is falling, you are leaving

Qing chu le, Wo ai de, Yi shi le
It is crystal clear that I have lost my dear one

Luo ye piao zai hu mian shang shui zhao le
The fallen leaves rest upon the surface of the lake



Xiang yao fang, Fang bu diao, Lei zai piao
I want to let go, but it is hard to do so, the tears are falling

Ni kan kan, Ni kan kan bu dao
You look, but you don't see

Wo jia zhuang guo qu bu zhong yao, Que fa xian zi ji ban bu dao
I pretend to myself that the past is insignificant, but I realize that I cannot do it



Shuo le zai jian, Cai fa xian zai ye jian bu dao
Having said goodbye, I realize that I will probably never see you again

Wo bu neng jiu zhe yang shi qu ni de wei xiao
I can't just lose your smile like this

Kou hong dai zai zhuo jiao
The lipstick sits on the edge of the table

Er ni wo zhao bu dao
But I can no longer find you

Ruo jiao se dui diao ni shuo hao bu hao
What do you say to reversing roles with each other?


Ni de xiao, Ni de hao
Your smile, your goodness,

Nao hai li, Yi zhi zai rao
They're spinning around in my mind

Wo de shou, Wang bu liao, Ni shou de wen du
My hands, can't forget the warmth of your hands

Xin sui le yi di, Jian bu hui
My heart's shattered on the floor, never to be mended again

Cong qian de xin tiao, Sheng xian guo qu
My rapid heartbeats from before,

Wo wu li tao pao
I can't escape from the past



Shuo le zai jian, Cai fa xian zai ye jian bu dao
Having said goodbye, I realize that I will probably never see you again

Neng bu neng jiu zhe yang ren zhe tong lei bu diao
Can I just hold back my tears, and hope they won't fall?

Shuo hao pei wo dao lao
You said you'd be with me till we were old

Yong heng wang na li zhao
Where do I find eternity now ?

Zai ci yong bao yi fen yi miao dou hao
Just another embrace, just for a minute or even a second.

Where Is Our Promised Happiness ( Shuo Hao De Xing Fu Ne )

Where Is Our Promised Happiness ( Shuo Hao De Xing Fu Ne )

ni de hui hua ling luan zhe, zai zhe ge shi ke
Your reply is still reverberating chaoticly, at this point of time

wo xiang qi pen quan pang de bai he, tian me san luo le
When I thought of the white doves beside the fountain, the sweetness is scattered

qing xu mo ming de la che, wo hai ai ni ne
My feelings are inexplicably dragging on, I realised that I still love you

er ni duan duan xu xu chang zhe ge, jia zhuang mei shi le
And yet you continue singing this song, pretending that everything is alright


shi jian guo le, zou le, ai qing mian lin xuan zhe
Time has passed and walked away, and there's a choice to be made when it comes to love

ni leng le, juan le, wo ku le
You're becoming apathetic and tired, and I cried

li kai shi de bu kuai le, ni yong ka pian shou xie zhe
You wrote a card describing the unhappiness when you left

you xie ai zhi gei dao zhe zhen de tong le
Sometimes when love reaches this point, it really hurts



zen me le, ni lei le, shuo hao de, xing fu de
What happened, you're tired, where is our promised happiness?

wo dong de, bu shuo le, ai dan le, meng yuan le
I understand, so there's no point talking anymore; our love has become bland and my dreams have become farfetched

kai xin yu bu kai xin, yi yi si shu zhe, ni zai bu she
Counting carefully the times of happiness and unhappiness that you won't let go

na xie ai guo de gan jue dou tai shen ke, wo dou hai ji de
I still remember very clearly the feeling of having loved


ni bu deng le, shuo hao de, xing fu ne
You stopped waiting; where is our promised happiness?

wo cuo le, lei gan le, fang shou le, hou hui le
I was wrong; my tears have dried; I have let go; and have regretted

zhi shi hui yi de ying yue he hai xuan zhuan zhe, yao zen me ting le
But that musical box containing the past is still turning, and how do I stop that?

Feng | Maple

Feng | Maple

Qu: Zhou Jie Lun
Music: Jay Chou

Ci: Song Jian Zhang (Dan Tou)
Lyrics: Song Jian Zhang (Bullet)



wu yun zai wo men xin li ge xia yi kuai yin ying
Dark clouds cast a shadow over our hearts

wo ling ting chen ji yi jiu de xin qing
I listen intently to the feelings that have long been silenced

qin xi tou ming
Distinct and clear

jiu xiang mei li de feng jing
Just like a beautiful landscape

zong zai hui yi li cai kan de qing
That can only be clearly seen in one's memories


bei shang tou de xin neng bu neng gou ji xu ai wo
Can a heart that's been thoroughly wounded continue to love me?

wo yong li qian qi mei wen du de shuang shou
I tried hard to hold (your) cold hands

guo wang wen rou
The tenderness in the past

yi jing bei shi jian shang suo
Is locked in time

zhi sheng hui san bu qu de nan guo
All that's left are sadness that cannot be dispersed


huan huan piao luo de feng ye xiang si nian
Longing is like maple leaves, slowly drifting down

wo dian ran zhu guang wen nuan sui mo de qiu tian
I light a candle to warm this year-end's autumn

ji guan lue duo tian bian
The aurora steals across the horizon

bei feng lie guo xiang ni de rong yan
The north wind flits across the face that's thinking of you

wo ba ai shao cheng le luo ye
Ashes from my burning heart falls like leaves

que huan bu hui shu xi de na zhang lian
But I can never regain (your) familiar face again


huan huan piao luo de feng ye xiang si nian
Longing is like maple leaves, slowly drifting down

wei he wan hui yao gan zai dong tian lai zhi qian
Why must I try to recover all before winter arrives?

ai ni chuan yue shi jian
My love for you transcends all time

liang hang lai zi qiu mo de yan lei
Two streams of tears that were shed for the autumn's end

rang ai shen tou le di mian
Let the love flood through

wo yao de zhi shi ni zai wo shen bian
I just want you by my side



bei shang tou de xin neng bu neng gou ji xu ai wo
Can a heart that's been thoroughly wounded continue to love me?

wo yong li qian qi mei wen du de shuang shou
I tried hard to hold (your) cold hands

guo wang wen rou
The tenderness in the past

yi jing bei shi jian shang suo
Is locked in time

zhi sheng hui san bu qu de nan guo
All that's left are sadness that cannot be dispersed



zai shan yao piao yi de hong yu
The lush mountainside forest

sui zhe bei feng diao ling
Withers in the North Wind

wo qing qing yao ye feng ling
I sway the windchime gently

xiang huan xing bei yi qi de ai qing
Attempting to awaken this abandoned love

xue hua yi pu man le di
Snowflakes have already covered the ground

shen pa chuang wai feng ye yi ji cheng bing
Fearing that the maple leaves outside the window are already frozen

An Jing | Silence

An Jing | Silence


Qu/Ci: Zhou Jie Lun
Music/Lyrics: Jay Chou


Zhi sheng xia gang qin pei wo tan le yi tian
Only the piano accompanies me throughout the day

Shui jiao de da ti qin
The sleeping cello

An Jing de jiu jiu de
Quiet and so old

Wo xiang ni yi biao xian de fei chang ming bai
I think you've made yourself clear

Wo dong wo ye zhi dao
I know and I'm sure

Ni mei you she bu de
You don't regret

Ni shuo ni ye hui nan guo wo bu xiang xin
You say you're upset too, that I don't believe

Qian zhe ni pei zhe wo ye zhi shi cheng jin
You being with me was in the past

Xi wang ta shi zhen de bi wo hai yao ai ni
I hope he loves you more than I do

wo cai hui bi zi ji li kai
Only then will I bring myself to leave

Chorus

Ni yao wo shuo duo nan kan
You want me to say it, but it is awkward

Wo gen ben bu xiang fen kai
I don't even want to break up

Wei she me hai yao wo yong wei xiao lai dai guo
Why must I depend on a smile to tide me through?

Wo mei you zhe zhong tian fen
I don't have the ability

bao rong ni ye jie shou ta
To accept both you and him

Bu yong dan xin de tai duo
Don't worry too much

Wo hui yi zhi hao hao guo
I'll still be fine

Ni yi jin yuan yuan li kai
You've already gone far away

Wo ye hui man man zou kai
And I will slowly walk away

Wei she me wo lian fen kai dou qian jiu zhe ni
Why is it that I have to accommodate you even when [we] break up?

Wo zhen de mei you tian fen
I really don't have the ability

An jing de mei zhe me kuai
Staying silent doesn't come so fast

Wo hui xue zhe fang qi ni
I will learn to give you up

Shi ying wei wo tai ai ni
Because I love you so much