Dream Thief (Do not Be Negative minded person)

Dream Thief (Do not Be Negative minded person)

There was a young girl who really likes to dance. Dancing versatility is very prominent compared with his peers, so she is often become champions in various competitions are held. She thought, with what they have today, a moment when you grow up she wants to become a world-class dancers. She imagines herself dancing in Russia, China, America, Japan, and watched by thousands of people who gave him a pat.

One day, in her town was visited by an expert dance originating from overseas. This expert is very great, and has a lot of cold hands born world-class dancers. This young girl wanted to dance and show his skill in front of these experts, even if it may get the chance to become his disciple. Finally the opportunity came.

The young girl managed to meet the experts behind the stage, after a performance of dance. The young girl asked "Sir, I am eager to become a world class dancer. Do you have a moment, to rate my dancing? I want to know what you think about my dance." Okay, dance in front of me during the 10 minute ", answered the experts.

Not to mention the 10 minutes passed, the expert stood from her chair and left the young girl passed away, without saying a word. What destroyed the young girl saw the attitude of the experts. The girl ran out. Come home, she immediately burst into tears. She became a hate towards itself. Apparently during this dance that she is proud not nothing in the face of the expert. Then she picked up her dance shoes, and she cast into the warehouse.

Since then, she vowed never to dance again. Dozens of years passed. The young girl has now become a mother with three children. Her husband had died. And to support her family, she worked to be the servant of a shop on the corner. One day, there was a dance show which was held in the city. The experts appear to be among the young dancing backstage. The experts seem old, with hair that was white. The young mother with three children also came to the dance performances.

After the event, the mother was carrying her three children into the back of the stage, looking for the expert, and introduced her three children to the expert. The experts still recognize this young mother, and then they talked intimately. The mother asked, "Mrs., there is one question that lump in my heart. It's about my appearance while dancing in front of you many years ago. So much ugly I look at it, so you leave me to go straight away, without saying a word word? " "Oh yes, I remember the event. Frankly, I've never seen such a beautiful dance you do at that time. I think you will become a world class dancer. I do not understand why you suddenly stopped from the world of dance", replied the expert.

The young mother was very surprised to hear answers to the expert. "It's not fair," cried the young mother. "The attitude you've stolen all my dreams. If I have a nice dance, why you left me just when I just danced a few minutes. You ought to praise me, and not just ignored me. Should I become a world class dancer. Not only clerk! "The expert replied quietly:" No. .... No, I think I've done it right.

YOU DO NOT HAVE TO DRINK ONE BARREL WINE FOR ROVE THAT GOOD WINE. Likewise I am. I do not have to watch you 10 minutes to prove you dance good. That night I also really tired after the show. So I leave you for a moment, to take my card, and hope you will contact me again the next day. But you were gone when I came out. And one thing you have to bear in mind, that you should FOCUS ON YOUR DREAM, NOT ON MY ACTION OR ACKNOWLEDGMENT.

Then a compliment? You expect praise? Ah, then you are growing. PRAISE IS LIKE A double-edged sword. There are times when MOTIVATING YOU, can also weaken YOU. And in fact I see that most PRAISE THAT SOMEONE IS PROVIDED ON GROW, WILL ONLY MAKE SATISFIED HIMSELF AND STOP growth. MY exactly prefer ignoring you, FOR THINGS THAT YOU CAN GROW FASTER whipped up AGAIN. Moreover, the praise should come from the desire of my own. INAPPROPRIATE YOU ASKING FOR PRAISE OF OTHERS "." You see, this is really just a small matter. Had you at that time not ignoring what is happening and keep dancing, maybe today you have become a world-class dancers. Maybe you hurt at the time, but the hurt you will quickly disappear as soon as you are practicing again. But the hurt that you regret this day will never be lost for ever.

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